Should we hide a relationship?

Question

My exgirlfriend and I got back together last night. I love her with all my heart and always have. I never had a girlfriend since she and I last broke up in February. About an hour ago she called and said that her mom is making her break up with me. Her mom told her that if she doesn't she'll have to live with her dad. I have been a better friend to Alyssa than her mom is a mom to her, and this is how her mom repays me. Alyssa liked the idea of being "friends with privelages" but I'm wondering if I should ask her to have a relationship and keep it a secret. I'm not sure what to do though. What do you think of the situation?

Answer 1

I think you should respect her mother. If you two are meant to be together things will work themselves out. Maybe try sitting down and talking to her mother. Find out why she doesn't want you to be together. Listen to what she has to say and maybe she will listen to what you have to say. Hopefully, you can work it out. If not, maybe it isn't meant to be. It may hurt but it will be better in the long run. You two may find each other later in life when the circumstances are better and you relationship will be that much stronger.

Answer 2

I think its horrible that her mother is making her break up with you. I went through a similar scenario when i was a teenager with my parents. I was forced to break up with my bf or they were going to send me to an all girl school a couple states away. Well my bf and i tried to keep the relationship a secret but my parents were so strict i was never able to see my bf except during school. In the end it didn't work out and a lot of it was the stress of it being secret. I wish you the best of luck whatever you decide to do.

Answer 3

go ahead keep it a secret.. i did that during a relationship that almost lasted 2 years.

Answer 4

just keep it a secret. if the mum doesnt like u then just dont tell her. just keep it ur dirty lil secret.

Answer 5

Respect her mother.