I like these two guys (tristan and bryan). I asked tristan out and i reallllllllllllly like him and have since second grade, but my friend hates me because she likes him too. And then theres bryan, ive liked him since the second grade too, and he likes me a LOT. I like them both more than anyone else, i just dont know if i should end things with tristan and go out with bryan or leave things be. they are both great guys. i kind of like tristan more but im also afraid of loosing aerial as my friend. i need a lot of help!
2006-10-11 14:06:04 · 9 answers · asked by cliderocker50 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you could have yourself quite a situation on your hands, on one hand you got Tristan, on the other you got Bryan, and somewhere in the middle you got aerial. What to do, what to do?
What do you like about both of these guys, is dating Tristan worth losing your friend over, and what about Bryan? Ask yourself what is so great about either of these guys, consider it really hard, write it down if you have to, make a top ten list on each one and rate them on good qualities and bad qualities. And if you and Aerial are really good friends you will consider her feelings to. Boyfriends will come and go, but friends will always
be there. or that is what i've heard anyway.
2006-10-11 14:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This is a tuffy. I think you should go out with Bryan because Aerial is your friend. If you don't want to lose her as one ,think about it. But the problem with this is that Aerial might ask Tristan out which is not fair to you because you gave him up. You need to tell Aerial that you gave up Tristan to keep your friendship and that does not mean you can go out with him. It also depends on who you like better which you states was Tristan. I think you should follow your heart and give it a shot with Tristan. I bet that Aerial will have a new crush soon and she will forget about the whole thing.
2006-10-11 14:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by lynx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i kno from experience that u should never let a boy come between a friendship that u have developed with a long lasting frend. Maybe areil wiil see just how much u like him and if she is a tru frend she will understand..but likewise u have to understand y she would be hurt if u take a risk and date tristan. I think u should keeo dating tristan bc it seems like things r going well and y try to fix sumthin thats not broken? just give it sometime and it will all ork out. Time heals all things =) good luck
2006-10-11 14:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by K.A.R.A =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you need to be sure that you like these guys cause of who they are not the way they look, not saying anything against you,,I just want ya to be on the safe side. And if going out with tristan is going to make you loose your friend, I don't think it's worth it so I would reconsider things. There are gonna be a bunch of boys out there, but good true friends are hard to find.
2006-10-11 14:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by BoBa QuEeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should tell Tristan that Aerial likes him and set them up and you go out with Bryan. You could double date.
Tristan may decide for himself who he likes.
2006-10-11 14:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by mmshall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So don't do anything, evidently you have a lot of hormonal issues going around your group of friends right now. Instead of dating one and losing two which would happen either way it looks like try just being friends with all of them and dont' date either one of the two guys.
2006-10-11 14:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave things be. Your in a good relationship keep it that way.
2006-10-11 14:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by mzteajae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one you have the most feelings for
dont worry about your friend
2006-10-11 14:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
second grade eh?
so you're in like sixth grade now?
2006-10-11 14:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by banana boat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋