okay well FINALLY a crush likes me back! yayyy =]
but i think i`ve always liked the though of having a boyfriend more than actually having one.
which doesn`t quite make sense because i`ve never had a bf.
i`m scared. i`m not afraid to admit that i`m scared he`ll hurt me =(
i`m in junior high && ppl just don`t stay together forever...
so he likes me && i like him.
people keep telling me he`ll ask me out.<3
but likeee, should i just get with him to see what happens even though we`ll break up in a matter of time... i could always just "enjoy the moment" because nothing really lasts forever... =(
ORRR should i take the easy-way-out && not hook up with him at all? which is kinda saddd. because i`ll ALWAYS wonder what it could`ve been.
as you can tell, i`m really confused...
please state your opinion (:
thank you SO much<3
2006-10-11 14:01:56 · 9 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out w/ him....missing out on an opportunity sucks and youll never forget it
2006-10-11 14:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by George S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its true most guys you date while in high school will eventually be a thing of the past but they are all learning experiences that help shape our future. I don't think that you should just lock yourself away and never date because you believe eventually the relationship will end. Being in jr high you are right it most likely will end but that's not a healthy way to deal with things. You need to be out having fun with your friends and not worry about what is going to happen in the future. If you have a bf for a while and eventually you break up it will hurt for a while but eventually there will be another boyfriend. trust me. I'm 36 and i still remember a lot of what it was like to be a teenager. I had a few bfs through jr high and high school and one was my first love it didn't last i went on to marry and have kids which i thought that would last forever and it didn't. After that i dated a few men and now i'm engaged again so even being hurt as much as i was i'm still willing to give it another go. And I can only hope that this time it will last for life.
2006-10-11 14:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by snail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life you have to live for the moment. As long as you dont allow that person to use you or make you do anything you find uncomfortable, go for it. Life needs experience to know how to handle hurt and heartbreak. And it also needs experience to make memories. Those will last your lifetime. Live your life honey.
2006-10-11 14:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take one step at a time. Go out on the date - say hi at school - hang out after school - go out on another date .... Well U get the picture.
2006-10-11 14:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by daisy770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, girl, in a few years you'll have much more experience. Pretend it's a sport you've never tried but will be very good playing.
Know that you'll know . . .
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2006-10-11 14:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow, you have to experience life head on. These are the things that makes up human. just live life and have fun.
2006-10-11 14:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by drew46759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about it....too much. let the relationship take its own course and perhaps it might end up the way you want it to be.
too much thinking only screws up the relationship.
2006-10-11 14:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by bhopaliguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're young give him a chance, and as for getting hurt, when you're dating ppl are gonna hurt you and you will hurt them, all part of dating and breaking up
2006-10-11 14:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!
no one dates thinkin they'll be soul mates!
2006-10-11 14:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by kpop_singer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋