My boyfriend asked me a very strange question a few min. ago: "What if i told you that i used to be a female" now he plays around alot and tells me stupid stuff like that, but if he really is playing he is doing a good job at this one.
What should i do???
What am i suppose to say????
2006-10-11 14:00:58 · 14 answers · asked by zsimone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say " It's ok honey I used to be a man"
2006-10-11 14:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by skhoury28nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am trying to be more direct in my life.
Tell him...
Would it bother you?.. yes, no, and why. He asked. Tell him. be nice, but tell him.
since it does bother you .. an opening line would be .. you know, your question bothers me because (x) .. and my answer is (y)
Might get more goofie and or thought provoking questions and answers, might shut him up, might lose him. But the door is open and must be walked through.
Then ask him, were you a female before? would you like to be a girl now? why did you ask this question? do you want to know if I am bi? .. just use your imagination.
And then ride the dragon. Cannot be too bad.
and of course the sky is the limit for the answers. don't lie. Hopefully you will know each other better.
2006-10-11 21:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him to be honest and tell him the joke has gone too far. Depending on how old you are also as it takes a lot of time for a sex change to be un-noticeable and I have heard stories of how women change into men and apparently it doesn't look the same but that might not be the case. Usually there are scars where the breast are removed also and it is covered with chest hair....maybe look closer there!
2006-10-11 21:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? All you have to do is look at his business and you can tell. Especially if it’s a female to male. And… you should see scars from a breast reduction surgery as well. You sound young… typically someone your age can’t afford this kind of surgery anyway. Life is too short to be with crazy people… move on sister! Get a new hobby… learn to Tango, rock climb, read Whitman… something interesting, just move on.
2006-10-11 21:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Maybe you should really sit down and talk to him and find out if he is indeed joking, or if he is being serious. Make it clear to him that he can be honest with you... honesty is definately the most important factor in a relationship.
2006-10-11 21:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Playing around or not I would drop him like a hot potato just for acting like it,that is so sick for someone to do.
2006-10-11 21:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him thats OK I was once a man and I bet he would never play with you like that ever again !!
2006-10-11 21:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to stop playing around.
2006-10-11 21:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by janet556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a trivcky one but i would be like stop fooling around one opf these days i might take it seriously
2006-10-11 21:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by superbudz14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is gay, or wanna be. dump him he too strange, no normal guy ask these questions to a woman.
2006-10-11 21:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋