*ok im in middleschool** ok well i dumped my ex twice. and he still likes me. i think i like him 2 since we havnt been together for a year but the reason i dumped him is cuz he kept on saying some gross things about me should i go out with him again *since we're older and more mature* or just turn him down!?
-Lauren
anyone can give me advice
2006-10-11 13:48:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just turn him down. You can certainly do better.
2006-10-11 13:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lauren,
If you've told him once, and twice that the things he says about are upsetting, then a third time get together is out of the question. Also going back with him is only going to make you look desperate for a man AND lower your self respect.
2006-10-11 13:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by alphafury08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did it once, he will do it again. Don't be vulnerable. Take advantage of this time that you can actually control a relationship. I say if in another year or 2 he wants you then do it. He will realize that he is mature and that is not the way to handle things. Good luck.!
2006-10-11 13:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I'm 15 and I still can't date. Study and do your homework don't worry about some guy that doesnt even kno anything about anything, you are still little kids, enjoy it, I am. Dating is for older people like when youre 16 not like 13, kay.
2006-10-11 13:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying gross things about someone is not nice. If you want to give him another chance, make him promise to say only nice things about you or you will break up with him again --- for good.
2006-10-11 13:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by robinallsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start off trying to be friends at first. Then if you see a change then take the relationship a little further
2006-10-11 13:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn him down, he is most likely going to act the same way again--you don't want to have to say 3 strikes and you're out!
2006-10-11 13:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lilaidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a second chance....it seems like he really likes you..or might even love you...does he know why you broke up with him in the first place? That might help...and if he does then tell him this is his last chance to make it upi to you....and if he wants that chance then he needs to respect you and not talk about you... GOOD LUCK! =)
2006-10-11 13:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Meggee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children lol....... i guess its up to you, if you feel that you two have matured in a year then give it another shot, just concentrate on having fun, don't get tied up in relationship issues becuase when you get older, you will face tougher more serious relationship issues and you will look back on today and realize that you miss those middle school days.. lol.... take care
2006-10-11 13:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by drew46759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanna know what gross things he was saying, it matters on that, but u dumped him twice for a reason so i wouldnt date him again if i were you
2006-10-11 13:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember your reasons for dumping him twice. Believe me people doesn´t change, we only learn to hide our flaws.
2006-10-11 13:58:02 · answer #11 · answered by nobodysfool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋