how do i talk to her?

Question

it seems stupid, but i think this girl kinda as far as a i know likes me a little, but the thing is i am the most shy person ever when it comes to someone i like. i know your gonna say "just talk" but i can't do it...i start to freak out when i get close or start to talk.


im normaly a quiet person unless im talked to first....so...




what should i do.......

Answer 1

Well first of all...once you do get the courage to talk to her make sure you are yourself...(otherwise being so nervous it will show... which she might also like)

Make sure you talk about her...what she likes to do, etc...something she can relate to. (this is also a way to get her to talk more so you don't have to do the talking until you're more comfortable.) AND REMEMBER No matter how dumb you think you sound...she has heard worse and as long as you are sincere and polite there's really no such thing as saying something dumb. (unlesss she's a @#@$@, which can also be fun, but thats an answer for another question...)

Also you can always get her email or her instant message and use that as training wheels,,,ya know chat a little and learn something about her before you really start talking.

Also remember she is just as nervous as you.

ANNNNNND...my last point...the first conversation or two are always the toughest, as you get to know her better the convesation will be easier.

I used to have the same problem...so when I really wanted to talk to girl I would think of three things I know about her and start off by asking about those things...then hopefully the convesation will be in full swing, before I ran out of my three talking points...

GOOD LUCK YOUNG BUCK!

Answer 2

Shy. The age old bugaboo. First, let me tell you a few secrets. One, your question is not stupid, it is genuine. Your not making up your feelings, your experiencing them. Your problem is not talking to this girl, it's your shyness that you must work on.

How. So easy but so difficult. Ever hear of Muhammad ali the boxer. He said every time he got in the ring, EVERY TIME, he was scared to death. Stomach would be so upset he want to throw up. Yet he got in their and became a world champion.

You must feel the fear, it is important and then go ahead and throw yourself out there. Over and over and over again. The fear will never go away, it's part of nature, but eventually you learn that many times you will be successful.

Try getting out of your own head, meaning pay attention to the person your interested in and talk about them. Women love when you talk about them and THEIR interests, rather than being clever, having a slick line, giving a lot of fake compliments or sounding like someone else who is supposed to be cool.

Answer 3

i used to be like that too but now i could to to a girl i like n i feel normal so just try to talk little by little n as time passes by ull get less shy and keep on thinking of whats the worse that could happen only if the worst thing is not bad

Answer 4

Maybe you should tell ur friend to tell her that u like her back and tell her to talk to you and then you can have a normal conversation. DONT FLIP OUT!!!! trust me girls like it better when guyz are either a little shy or totally confident in themselves(but not overconfident) U CAN DO IT jsut get comfortable around her.

Answer 5

Write her a note. Maybe you are better with words on a paper and leave the note where she will get it.

Answer 6

well if you don't want to talk to her in person there is your friends trust me there the second best resource to notes i get my friend to ask the guy i like sir-ten questions and she dose it for me because i need to know if he likes me so you can try one of them things and they do usually work

Answer 7

either get the girl or sit alone.
you have to go and talk or else someone else will take her.what you wanna do?