She is 16 and she has been refusing to do anything, chores, going to school, she doesn't do anything at all except sit on the couch and watch tv and sometimes she sits in her room and cries. Is this depression? If I take her to the doctors, how do they diagnose depression? Thanks!
2006-10-11 13:40:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
When I was here age I acted exactly like that. My hormones were way out of wack. My parents had no idea what to do with me. After a couple of years I grew out of it. I think an open relationship with your daughter is key. She really needs a friend right now. She probably has serious things going on right now that you do not know about. Talking to her and making her your friend will help immensely. I wish my parents developed that kind of relationship with me. Then maybe things would have been easier and better for me in my teenage years. When you go to talk to her do not push her. And if she tells you things that would make you mad or sad do not show it. Because if you do she will cut off that communication in a heartbeat. Be supportive yet explain why you feel indifferent in her decision. Think of her as a best friend someone you truly love and respect. If this does not work try a psychologist and then medication worst case scenario. But I have a feeling that all she needs is someone to talk to.
2006-10-12 06:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Smellymelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a name for that that I can't remember, but basically, yes, it's most likely a form of severe depression. Take her to a doctor ASAP. They'll talk to you and her, and figure out what's going on. Most likely, they'll put her on antidepressents, and she'll be back to her old self within about two weeks. However, do keep in mind that there are also other possible diagnoses, and you should listen to her doctor's advice over mine. I'm not a doctor, and even if I were, I wouldn't be able to diagnose your daughter over the Internet.
2006-10-11 13:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are symptoms of depression, but there may be other underlying mental issues she has. Could be eating disorders, low self esteem, problems with friends, or a combonation of things. Take her to the family doctor and have her talk to them about her own symptoms and feelings, you may also have to talk to the doctor separately as well to say how you feel about the situation. They have assessments and tests with questions that may help determine where she is having issues. They may prescribe antidepressants or suggest counseling. i highly suggest counseling as many depressed people are in situation depression or have thinking patterns that lead to the depression.. it may or may not need medication. a psychiatrist would prescribe the medication if it comes down to that.
2006-10-11 13:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like depression. The doctors will ask her questions about her mood, apetite, and those types of things. There is no way of knowing for sure whether it's depression, but they can put together a really good picture to help determine if that's what it most likely is.
2006-10-11 13:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by getmycountryback 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm this sounds like me! im 15... and i would do the same... well almost.. i would just stay in my room and cry. it was mostly bcause of depression. i didnt think i was too attractive, and i would compare myself to other girls. i still get that way at times. but i think its a phase that every teen especially a girl goes through! You should take her to a counselor, my parents have already made an appointment for me, and hopefully will help me! and also help u and ur daughter! Also just keep in mind, maybe her friends cut, like mine do, although ive tried to cut myself, but i kno i am not strong enough, but maybe if her friends do it, maybe she will tend to do it also! im just telling u the possibilities!.. check to see if all she wears are long sleev shirts, because that might be a sign that she cuts!
i hope my experience can help you! i give you luck! and i look up to u for finding out wat is wrong with ur daughter! :]
2006-10-11 13:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by singing soul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hormonal or clinical depression is a possibility. also a lack of friends can start a type of depression to manifest.
there are questions and some physical tests that will help to diagnose the condition.
2006-10-11 13:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A psychiatrist would be able to diagnose depression. Maybe you could first have her speak with her guidance counselor at school. They are trained in these sort of things... good luck.
2006-10-11 13:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by cammie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your daughter is suffering from some type of depression. she has something on her mind and she needs counseling. my daughter is Bi-Polar she has what you call ups and downs. one day she is on top of the world and the flick of your finger she is as down as you can get. hers is a chemical and mental imbalance and its a lot harder to treat than just plain depression. but yes you should take her to the doctor. also try get her to open up and let you in.
2006-10-11 14:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by duc602 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to her pediatrician to rule out any physical causes for her lethargy. If nothing is wrong physically take her to a child/adolescent psychiatrist. Do not wait and hope things get better on their own. Do not shrug it off as her being a "moody teenager" it may be something much more serious.
I hope everything works out.
2006-10-11 13:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by Teresa V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could be a rebel. Or just a lazy teen. And maybe she cries because she goes through a lot of drama from school. Or it could be depression.
2006-10-11 13:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by Link 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋