Am I destined to walk this earth alone an angry bitter old man in my later years or is there a female soulmate

Question

out there for me? I have this dream of myself at 80 drinkin Olympia beer and eating stale tv dinners in front of my widescreen tv with a Playboy Magazine on the couch and a bottle of Viagra beside me. Your thoughts welcome?

Answer 1

That would be sad to have viagra and a playboy by yourself at 80. Damn - that is a lot of masturbating.

I think everyone has a soulmate, but in this day and age, we ruin the one we were meant to be with.

I'm just hoping to die before I'm 40. I blew my chance with my soulmate and I can accept that. I'm already 30, so time is running out.

But if you have a widescreen tv I'd watch it with you...just put away the viagra unless they make the female version too!

Answer 2

You don't say how old you are now or anything about your present circumstances-- which of course would have an influence on the answer to your question.

People who think that they need to find their "soulmate" are often disappointed. If you keep your expectations low and simply try to enjoy yourself no matter where you are, you will never be lonely. Your image of yourself as "bitter and lonely" is probably easy for others to perceive-- of course females will be more likely to avoid you if you are projecting that image. Cultivate the qualities in yourself that make you lovable.

Answer 3

Add some Astroglide to the picture. I love women and I can see why you would, but remember that it really IS true that a relationship won't keep you from getting depressed, and it doesn't fill ALL of the voids. It sure does make you happy in many ways - and it creates problems for you in other areas in your life. Either way, you won't escape bad feelings. Love isn't a magic wand for all things. You really will learn the hard way with this.

Answer 4

I'm 34 and single and I don't see myself as bitter just aggressive and wiser now, these days people are to freaky for us old folks believe me they're on some weird stuff now. Find a nice church or join a club in your area and don't be bitter get better baby.......lol

Answer 5

There's a soulmate out there for everyone. Rather then sitting home bored and doing nothing, get out and be active. You can't go looking for love, it'll come to you. And, when you least expect it, you'll get it.
Have faith and keep yourself busy. All good things come to those who wait.

Answer 6

Ok. You are what you think. If you think that's how you'll end up then your right. Take some initiative, and look for someone. Be patient though don't go out looking for a quick fix. Patience and confidence is they key.

Answer 7

there is someone out there for every one. dont get your hopes down, if you are patient and take life day by day, someone will come to you. If you spend all your time thinking you are going to be 80 drinking Olympia beer and eating stale T.V. dinners in front of my widescreen T.V. with a Playboy Magazine on the couch and a bottle of Viagra beside you, nothing good will happen. Just try an online dating service. It will all work out in the end for you hun.

Answer 8

Of course you could walk the earth alone as a happy buddha or happy rishi.

Try not to be bitter, find a beer you like, and avoid stale food ..

Get out more .. difficult to possible.

adieu.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

You don't have to be angry and bitter even if you never find someone. You could have good friends to hang out with or talk to, you could cook for yourself (or eat out, if you can afford it), and even on days alone you could find things to do by yourself. First and foremost, you have to be happy with yourself, otherwise your relationships might not go so well.