How do I start... well I finally confronted this girl on MONDAY. Now neither yesterday or today was I able to spark up another conversation with her. I've been trying my damn best to catch her alone. Reason for that is she is really shy.
I don't want her to feel uncomfortable but I feel I'm losing her even if it means i need to approach her right next to her friend. I've been trying too much to try to catch her alone. I'm thinking if she's with her friend again to just say Hi, Crystal. That way she might not shy away and look. I'm totally unsure about her. But I myself have a shy side I've already told myself I'm willing to break this if it means being able to know her.
So how should I make a confident approach without making her feel uneasy? Should I only say Hi when she's with a friend and start a conversation everytime she's alone?
When I confronted her she looked at me alot. And was talking REALLY soft. She smiled the whole time and blushed so i don't think she dislikes meHELP!
2006-10-11 13:38:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, like you said, only say hi to her when she's around her friend but when she's alone, start a conversation with erh. That will show even more that you like her!
2006-10-11 13:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confronting is a bit harsh to use in this Q. Approach is a little more softer, which is the way you should try to get to know her. You're on the right track about her friend or being alone but sometimes you have to take your shot when you get it. Shy and being confident don't mix, like oil and water, you may come off pushy. My suggestion which worked for me was to write a little note with a question on it, hand it to her and don't wait for an answer. Shoe is on the other foot now, she's going to be looking for you to ask about the question or give you an answer. Looks like your face to face now. The question you ask? It's up to you, my favorite is "Do you like to cook".
2006-10-11 13:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Steve G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep speaking to her. When you catch her alone, start up a conversation. She is probably a little uncomfortable with the attention. The more you speak, the easier it will become for the both of you. Good luck!
2006-10-11 13:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by scarletsummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it truly is extra effective to have that effect which you gave and snob (no longer intentionally) to enable her comprehend which you're kinda shy of what effect you have expressed so as that she would be waiting to correctly known which you have that quite weigh down feeling on her. to teach which you're shy besides as she is, she could have that self belief a sprint which you have the comparable point of shyness and supply all of because of the fact she knew that there is somebody who accepts and is familiar with her for who she is. God Bless!
2016-10-02 05:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋