Well first of all I can't do anything right like get a guy, or write anything right b/c I get so stressed out b/c of everything and can't get a date or any good friends. So I just feel like killing me but I feel like thats not the way to take care of it so please help if you understand this!
2006-10-11 13:38:09 · 15 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart..life is too long for you to make it short..
y don't u find some new friends ..share ideas with them..and see either it will help or not..
or..
u find one right person to talk..share with them how u fell ..ask their oponion.and u must find the trusted person..
i do suggest you to watch movies..there is a lot of movies similiar wat ur facing..
the most important thing is you must have confidence in urself..
just tell to yourself that you can do it..and PLEASE don't look down at ur self..
gd luck sweetheart...
2006-10-11 13:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by CuTe GaL.. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should really talk to someone. You don't need to feel like you should kill yourself just because you haven't gotten a boyfriend and have good friends. Maybe the guys aren't worth your time. Maybe the people you want as friends are scum.
Quit stressing out so much. These things are so unimportant in your life. What you need is a good family and you need to make yourself feel happy. Do something nice for yourself. Pamper yourself!! You deserve it!!
2006-10-11 20:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by catwymn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself. God loves you. There are also probably a million other people that love you. Hang in there. I promise it gets better. The thing about being in a relationship is that you have to be happy with yourself first. If you are not happy without someone you won't be happy with someone. Being in a relationship isn't all that it's cracked up to be. Look at married couples... How many married people envy single people? Yep, ALL OF THEM! Rarely is it that a single person looks at a married couple and wishes to be them. We all like to know that we have someone significant in our lives. Look inside yourself first. I guarantee you will like what you see. I like you;)
2006-10-11 20:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie it's not as bad as you think it is. I spent a few months in the dumps too. Trust me thats where you are. Everybody has a talent even if you have to develop one. Keep trying you will get it right. As for dates,umm, you need to focus on you right now because you have to be happy with you before any one else will be. Hang in there kitten. It gets better.
2006-10-11 20:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about what you like and don't like learn what you will do in high stress situations. get to know yourself then everything else should fall into place. or you will know where you need help or a least have a better idea. and don't be in a rush to do any of it. it took me 2 years of soul searching just to have a little idea of who I really am.
2006-10-11 20:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by zedvilla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel humans can all get that way if they get insecure or don't know how to act or always panic in a certain situation where they need to remain calm and upbeat the most try to be happy if you can get yourself more comfortable in these situations it may help also try to be a bit more outgoing that will help you all around maybe you just need to start looking for friends in different areas or different places to not get sucky drug addict friends for example try to make friends at places like star bucks
2006-10-11 20:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by BlueCherubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe you.
i believe you CAN do this..
all you have to do is be yourself
do not try to be anything different than you are!
once you can do this..then just talk to guys just about the same way you talk to your girls friends..do you get all silly when you go to say hi to your friends..NO...so why do this when you talk to a guy...
make believe you have known them forever..( don't let the guy know your doing this..keep it to yourself) then just be yourself..lovely as you are.
good luck
and
God Bless
2006-10-11 20:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath.
Wait, good things come to those who wait, believe me I had to kiss a lot of frogs before I met my prince.
Don't let a temporary problem end in a permanent solution.
2006-10-11 20:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Saffernellie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel, just have hope, no matter how hard things get try to be positive, it will get better. Good luck
2006-10-11 20:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by jaylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it (getting a guy) so much.Just work on yourself and the rest will eventually come together.
2006-10-11 20:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋