I always try to be open and honest with them and be true to my nature but it seems like I always get hurt. For instance, I meet a nice lady online who I thought was different only to be ignored after meeting her just two times and then having her not tell me that she didnt want to speak to me anymore. She had a friend do it for her. I know I try very hard but even when I dont , it still seems like I keep getting hurt by women who say all the right things at first and then become something else. Any ideas? I just want to find someone who is sincere and honest.
2006-10-11 13:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by renaldo b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you're being too nice. Try to be less anxious . This scares many women.
2006-10-11 13:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are in the same boat as us guys. I know how you feel belive me! My advice is to be patient and dont rush into things no matter how great she may seem. Finding love is like rolling dice, you will lose more than you win. Look into yourself for companionship. Accept the fact that you are alone...for now...and learn to be your own best friend and when you find that special someone, take it SLOW! That way you may not get hurt as bad or at all! Good luck !
2006-10-11 13:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by drew 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are a very nice person, the way they treated you was wrong the person that did that to you just lost a good man. seems like you are perfect for any women even me but you still need to look for the one who is sincere and honest. I hope you find here when you do tell me bye.
2006-10-11 13:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by freaklady09 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This may be hard to swallow but try to read it with an open mind. My guess is your sending out a desperation vibe to women, meaning your are coming on too fast trying to establish something.
Stop trying so hard, because you may be successful and hook up with someone that's not so good. Sloooooooooow down. Look around. Take your time and you will do fine. Nature is natural, not forced.
2006-10-11 13:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry charlie sincere and honest doesnt exist in the american society any longer.
people are greedy bastards who fill up on booze and drugs just to get through the day. Then eat drive through food that clogs their arteries and blurs their vision.
Now how can you even remotely find a decent woman who is going to treat you right? not here I say.
or you could just go to california and move in with the vegans!
2006-10-11 13:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do not invest to much in a relation, especially starting out. Don't be to available like talking with her everyday because if you do, you will get to accustom to her wanting to be with you. Do not ever let money be the core of the relationship. EVER!!!! Talk to every full moon (metaphorically speaking) where you don't get to accustom to talking to her until you truly know she is totally serious about being in a relationship with you. After that just pace yourself and just let it gradually grow.
2014-07-05 20:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by William Brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a nice guy, do not simply find a women. always pick the one who are trully 100% as honest as you. some womens like to fool around and seldom go annoy that women if u are not an annoying person though. =P
2006-10-11 13:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try not to fall for these women so soon man
give yourself and them some time to get to know each other first.
The right one will come around you just have to be patient
don't rush things, go with tha flow.
And if they stop talking to you for some reason
then she wasn't the one for you, move on.
2006-10-11 13:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will tell you why, most women like assholes. Be an *** you will have the women falling at your feet. This is sad but true.
2006-10-11 13:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by awagner1971 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Man its gonna happen no matter wut. keep your confidence and just pick the right woman, dont be getting any old girl. Make sure you click with the chick and that you two share the same interests(some anyways). Online dating is tuff man but you can get through it, just take your time.
2006-10-11 13:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋