I like him so much and I need him back
2006-10-11 13:33:39 · 26 answers · asked by Nique W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhh...you cant, you shouldnt.
2006-10-11 13:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him
Send him a card with a sweet note
Send him flowers
Send him a cookie bouquet
Send him a singing telegram
Send him a lovely hand-written note thru the mail
Send him a teddy bear with candies
Send him a box of candy
Show up at his front door step in a cute outfit
leave a love note on the windshield of his car
Send him a good book of poems
Send him a gift certificate for an outing at his favorite sport club
Send him a gift certificate to his favorite restaurant
Send him a gift certificate for a massage
Offer to cook him dinner
Buy him his favorite cologne
Bottom line: Just communicate with him of your interest. Don't be too aggressive; leave the response with him and waite patiently. Let him feel in control.
2006-10-11 13:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the exact same thing. Give it time first of all. It takes some getting used to. Focus on yourself. I've gone though many break-ups and I am SO greatful that I didn't get back with the ones that I thought I really wanted to get back with. Time really does heal all wounds. Your prince charming might be around the corner!)
2006-10-11 13:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember why you are exes in the first place. Most people want to go back because they are comfortable being with someone they know, but the same old problems are there. I say move on and get to know someone else.
2006-10-11 13:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the guy you know he hates to make him jealous if you see signs that he wants you back dump the guy and get back with your ex. But always remember not to brake up with the guy he hates until your ex has taken you back and dont let him know that you r still goin out
2006-10-11 13:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by money baggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every couple is different, every individual is different
From my learning experiences and deep contemplation and observation, have lots of patience BUT get working on it as soon as possible !!! and have faith, never give up until you get it back
(just make sure you want it back though). It might take days, weeks, months,... you'll have to keep contact, have patience, and keep on with it.... oh, and things may not be the same as before, you've both gone through things that your relationship hasn't gone through before, You'll both have learned lessons, become wiser, braver, etc... it won't be exactly the same again. It may be better, it may be more challenging, it may be more mature, it may be more deep and loving...oh, and just in case, he might have gone with another mate, but even if that may seem permanent, it may just as well be temporary, regardless of current appearance of things...oh, and very important, just don't be possessive or demanding, that could drive him away really hard...wish we could chat, exchange stories, experiences, advice...my exgirlfriend did all the right things, then 99% on the way to getting me back, she totally gave up... I saw she so almost had me back totally
2006-10-11 13:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by million$gon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.
Now, move on.
If you truly feel that you "need" him, then it is time for you
to look in the mirror and see what it is inside yourself
that you are lacking and become the person that you are
meant to be. Then, the right man will come to you, not out of
need, but out of love.
2006-10-11 13:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your Ex for a reason, myself i'd chalk it up and move on, but if you need his money that bad then undo what ever made him your Ex, regardless who was at fault, which shouldn't be in any relationship.
2006-10-11 13:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by Steve G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with him....you have to give him a reason to want to be back with you cause chances are he probably felt crappy about it. If it was a mutual dicision id just give him a call to see how he is and ask if he wants to go out for lunch to catch up.
2006-10-11 13:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by And kayla was like 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off girl.. you never NEED someone that doesnt need you back.
Second off... it wont work if he doesnt feel the same way... so your best bet is to talk to him and find out how he feels... and then take it from there.
2006-10-11 13:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG what is wrong w/ you? God made people break up for a reason and its not to get back together w/ them..... its to stay broken up w/ them so you can find the right person
2006-10-11 13:35:59 · answer #11 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋