Upset with anxiety, and keep crying. Is it normal to be confused at this time its like people talk to me and I have to ask them to repeat themselves, I feel like I am having a nervose breakdown I am so upset over this, How Am i going to get through has this every happend to you. And also so scared with anxiety to see her laying there at the viewing please help me?
2006-10-11 13:32:04 · 16 answers · asked by luckylove 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
What do you mean? You saw her alive Thursday and died afterwords or you saw her in the coffin Thursday and looked fine? Well, I lost a friend too. I also lost my Grandfather, my Uncle, my Great Uncle, my dog, my brother-in-law's cat, and one of my favorite wrestlers. Yeah, it's pretty sad, but you have to realize that death is all around us. When people have to pass on, they do. I wish the best of luck to you. I know how it feels, it really sucks. I'm so sorry.
2006-10-11 13:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Link 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You will get through this-I am so very sorry. My mom passed away in her sleep last Oct., the day after I got married and I was on the emotional roller coaster.One day so happy and the next miserable and wondering why?? There are no answers. She wasn't sick or anything.It is such a shock-that is the thing. So sudden. And in your case so young. For a while it seems like it isn't real. You just have to go and be strong and hopefully you have a good support system in other friends who can grieve with you.It takes time.Look at pictures, remember the good times, talk about her with other friends. It is perfectly normal to feel the way you do.And one day you will stop crying. Be strong-you will be ok.
2006-10-11 13:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Pesty Wadoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im very sorry about your loss. You are going through normal stages of grief. You just need to remember the good times you had with her and keep her memory alive in your heart. She will always be with you. Also remember that she is in a better place and you will see her again.
I lost my father in an accident 3 months before I was getting married. Its very hard to lose someone you love but if you have faith you can overcome it.
Good luck to you!!
2006-10-11 13:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Shellee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its completely natural, particularly because as it sounds, it was unexpected. people deal with grief in many diffrent ways, so dont think that what you are feeling or how you are behaving is wrong. Its going to be extremely hard to see your friend at the viewing, but it does provide an opportunity to say goodbye and get a sense of closure. I know its cliche, but the best healer is time, there is no magic cure for the pain.
2006-10-11 13:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Psychodelic Chicken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your lose. people don't realize how fragile life is, we all think we are immortal. However you have to go to see someone who will be able to get you through this tragedy. There are therapists that handle grief. If you need medications they will send you to the proper Dr. who will be able to help in that area This is nothing to be ashamed of with the appropriate services you will be a able to get passed this and get on with you life normally.
Although your friend has passed her memory will always be with you, keeping her memory alive is very important, remembering the good times you have had together will bring a smile on you face. Talking about her keeping her with you is a good thing, You don;t have to forget her. Caring her with you will make you feel happier, plus I believe souls that go before there time are always with us. People who are near and dear to are heart become our angels. She is your Angel and will always be with you. I wish you peace in your heart.
2006-10-11 15:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by SpecialLdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When stressed, it is very difficult to concentrate -hence having others to repeat things. Use music, a warm bath, a favorite drink, anything to get you through this period of grief-to give you something else to try to focus on... I am sorry for your loss. My friend died on the way to her birthday party, we were all about 16. I still visit her grave and I am 32. You never forget, but somehow they always remain a beautiful angel in your mind.
2006-10-11 13:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by catzrme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, people grieve in different ways. You will be confused, angry, sad etc. My dad passed away last year suddenly and I was and still am a wreck over it. I did not think I would make it thru the funeral, but I did. Take your time to grieve and realize it will take time. Sorry to hear about your friend.
2006-10-11 13:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry your going through this ,yes I've been through it my self i lost my daughter she was only 5 days old to meningitis
it's a scary feeling you feel all alone and empty inside,it's good to cry to get it all out not good to keep it in.your in a state of shock with her passing because you weren't expecting it, your friend is with you in spirit trying to help you through this ,she's not gone she's in a better place, you really need friends and family to stand by you through this terrible time.i still to this day i talk to my daughter in my head and for some reason i feel better i can feel her prescience near me.it won't hurt to ask your doctor for a mild sedative to get through the service it will relax you and take deep slow breaths if you feel anxiety coming on. it will get easier in time to slowly heal.
all the best and god bless you
2006-10-11 13:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
only shows how lots you permit out him and want he have been with you. perhaps it is your subconsious' way of providing you with what you needed.... to ascertain your buddy back. I say that bc whilst i replaced right into a like 5 and my cat died (i understand cat and individual... huge distinction yet i replaced into little and that i will to the think approximately a sec) I used to wish (non secular relatives) each and every night that i might dream of him so as that i ought to ascertain him and carry him and all that stuff. So perhaps it particularly is subconsiously what you have been wanting, to speak on your buddy. i'm sorry approximately him by making use of the way, i know it must be particularly annoying.
2016-10-19 05:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through. I lost my husband and best friend in December at age 28. Everything was normal and he died in his sleep. Finding him was very traumatic on me. You will get through this. Find the inner strength and push on. Think about what your friend would say. When I want to give up I hear Eric telling me to quit crying and to go on.
2006-10-11 13:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am so so so sorry. I know how you feel. that happened to me when my dad passed away...just take deep breaths...and remember she is always with you in your heart...she wouldn't want to see you crying like this..or be upset would she? she would probably want you to be happy. It is perfectly normal i think to feel this way. it's hard when someone very close to you dies. Just take deep breaths..and remind yourself she is in a better place...a place called heaven and she wants to see you happy. Your in a state of shock right now. If you feel you can't take this..it is VERY helpful to talk to someone about it...like a therapist who can help you deal and cope with your loss in a healthy and positive way okay? try it out and see how you like it. I am very sorry. Things WILL get better okay? have hope.
I love you sweetheart. good luck.
2006-10-11 13:40:25 · answer #11 · answered by mergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋