IUD's....?

Question

I'm 17 about to turn 18 and I recently just had my second child. I am dead set on getting birth control of course and I really want mirena iud. I feel it would be much better for me then just a pill or a shot which I may or may not forget about. I have also read the pamphlets for them and gone through all the websites. My problem is my doctor. Can he deny me completely of getting it or is it just his moral choice? I know he is a christian and his main excuse for not wanting me to have it is that I'm not yet married. I thought that it should be my choice what I choose but he is trying to get me onto everything else but what I really want. So my question is can he deny me and/or should I find a new obgyn?

Answer 1

1. yes get a new doc. No doc should press his beliefs on you, no matter what. Hes supposed to look out for what best for you and if you want birth control hes supposed to give it to you.

2. I wouldn't be so eager to get the IUD. I was told by my doc that it would be a good idea, since I am monogamous, and have been with my guy for years now. However, the IUD can cause cysts in your uterine walls, scratches, and such. The ends are braced up against your walls, kinda wedged there. If you have strong muscles, you could cause damage -without knowing it- by flexing. Then they would have to go in and fix the damage. To me it sounds more dangerous than helpful.

3. My mother was on the IUD when she conceived me. So I'm proof that they're not that great.

in any case, you choose what you feel is best for you, and don't let a doc push his religious ideas on you, you can actually sue him for that I think. Denying you Medical care in the name of God.

Answer 2

I would request you to see another Good Gynocologist and have what ever you would like to have.

In this conntext you can not also compleately ignore the advice by the present doctor. You should understand the side effects and complication of getting IUS insterted and then decide.

An intrauterine device (intra meaning within, and uterine meaning of the uterus) is a birth control device also known as an IUD or a coil (this colloquialism is based on the coil-shaped design of early IUDs). It is a device placed in the uterus and is the world's most widely used method of reversible birth control. The device has to be fitted inside or removed from the uterus by a doctor or qualified medical practitioner. It remains in place the entire time pregnancy is not desired. Depending on the type, a single IUD may be used for 5 to 10 years.

Insertion of the IUD may introduce bacteria into the uterus. It is very important that the provider use proper infection-prevention techniques during insertion. Antibiotics should be given before insertion to women at high risk for endocarditis (inflammation of the membrane lining the heart), but should not be used routinely.

During the placement appointment, the cervix is dilated in order to sound (measure) the uterus and insert the IUD. Cervix dilation is uncomfortable and, for some women, painful. Doctors often advise women to take painkillers before the procedure to reduce discomfort, and some will use a local anaesthetic.

After IUD insertion, menstrual periods are often heavier, more painful, or both - especially for the first few months after they are inserted. On average, menstrual blood loss increases by 20-50% after insertion of a copper-T IUD; increased menstrual discomfort is the most common medical reason for IUD removal.

Complications include expulsion and uterine perforation. Uterine perforation is generally caused by an inexperienced provider and is very rare. Expulsion is more common in younger women, women who have not had children, and when an IUD is inserted immediately after childbirth or abortion. Women should check the string of the IUD at least once per menstrual cycle to verify that it is still in place.

The string(s) may be felt by some men during intercourse. If this is problematic, the provider may cut the strings even with the cervix, so they cannot be felt. Shortening the strings does prevent the woman from checking for expulsion, however.

The risk of ectopic pregnancy to a woman using an IUD is lower than the risk of ectopic pregnancy to a woman using no form of birth control. However, of pregnancies that do occur during IUD use, a higher than expected percentage (3-4%) are ectopic.

Although the pregnancy rate during IUD use is very low (less than 1% per year), it is not a 100% effective method of birth control. If pregnancy does occur, presence of the IUD increases the risk of miscarriage, particularly during the second trimester. It also increases the risk of premature delivery. These increased risks end if the IUD is removed after pregnancy is discovered. Although the Dalkon Shield IUD was associated with septic abortions (infections associated with miscarriage), other brands of IUD are not. IUDs are also not associated with birth defects or other pregnancy complications.

Answer 3

I would just find a new doctor. Keep in mind though, that the Mirena IUD has some negative side effects. I had it for three years and gained 40 pounds. I am not saying this will happen to you, just be advised. I also started getting multiple UTI's. But the positives were never having to worry about getting pregnant. I am glad you realize that you do not need anymore kids right now.

Answer 4

he cant deny you the IUD if you want it. You are what they call a good candidate because you are young and already have children. The IUD has the risk of causing infertility, and that may be why he is hesitant. If he refuses to treat you in the manner you, seek a different doctor. The risk of causing infertility due to ectopic pregnancy or imbedding is probably why he does not want to risk it. Beings you are not yet married, they dont want to ruin your chances of getting pregnant when you finally settle down to a marriage. They can deny you the treatment you want, go else where if thats the case.

Answer 5

Well I think that you should definitely find a new obgyn. It should be up to you what kind of birth control method that you want! I have the IUD and have had it for 3 yrs. Needless to say I have not had anymore kids since, and there has even been some accidents.

Answer 6

a million. Neo-Pagan (a hundred%) 2. Mahayana Buddhism (87%) 3. Unitarian Universalism (86%) 4. Hinduism (80 4%) 5. Jainism (80 3%) 6. New Age (80 3%) 7. Liberal Quakers (seventy 9%) 8. Theravada Buddhism (seventy 5%) 9. Taoism (70%) 10. New theory (sixty six%) 11. Mainline to Liberal Christian Protestants (fifty 9%) 12. Scientology (fifty six%) 13. Orthodox Quaker (fifty six%) 14. Sikhism (fifty six%) 15. Reform Judaism (fifty one%) sixteen. Secular Humanism (fifty one%) 17. Christian technology (Church of Christ, Scientist) (40 two%) 18. Bahá'í faith (37%) 19. seventh Day Adventist (30%) 20. Orthodox Judaism (28%) 21. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) (24%) 22. Nontheist (24%) 23. Mainline to Conservative Christian/Protestant (18%) 24. jap Orthodox (sixteen%) 25. Islam (sixteen%) 26. Roman Catholic (sixteen%) 27. Jehovah's Witness (14%) precise approximately what I figured i could be Brightest advantages, Raji the eco-friendly Witch

Answer 7

I had 2 kids at the age of 19 and had my IUD inserted at my 4 week post partum exam!

Okay I have to debunk the myths in this thread!!!! Chances of getting pregnant on and IUD from the late 90's to now 2006 are that of a woman who has had surgery!

YOU must be in a monogamous relations hip or else you are at high risk of infection and the problem with that is that its harder to treat bc of the IUD in place! and it may cause sterility

DEF Switch DR.!!!! He should not be pushing his religious believes on you!!!!

Answer 8

I would definitely go to another GYN. It is your choice whether you want to prevent having another baby, and it is your choice how to go about doing that. If your doctor won't put one in for you, there is one who will. Does he think you're just somehow going to stop having sex just because you're not married? Be proactive in your care and find a doctor or clinic that will help you. I had the IUD for 3 years and it was successful. I had it taken out when I decided it was time to get pregnant again. You never have to worry about it!

Answer 9

find a new obgyn if he's refusing. i had an IUD and was glad i choose it over the pill. it's so easy and you don't have to remember anything and if you want to get pregnant late on, it's no problem to remove.