My boyfriend was a bachelor for quite some time...we've been together for almost a year now and he is never aggressive when it comes to sex. I feel that his internet porn and playboys are more satisfying to him to whack off to instead of trying to attact me with some nice sex. I feel like something must be wrong with me if he doesn't act interested. There's times when he has a complete erection and I verballing mention something about it...hoping that's a good enough clue for him to act upon it and try to sex me up. But it doesn't happen. What's wrong? What can I do? It seriosly upsets me. I love him so much and he's the only boyfriend that I've had who I am the most sexually aroused for.
2006-10-11 13:26:55 · 13 answers · asked by nic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Change your boyfriend. He's crazy...
2006-10-11 13:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by EcLiPsE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him if you can join him in his porn watching and make it a mutual thing. Maybe if you show some interest in that it will open up the door for you getting laid. I always look through my boyfriends magazines before he does. I like to read him the Penthouse forums and see how hot and bothered I can get him. Once he figured out that I was ok with his magazines and whatnot it made our sex-life a little more interesting. I think most guys feel like they have to hide their porn from their chick because they feel that she will disapprove of it. Start enjoying porn with him, let him know that it's not the actual porn that bothers you, it's the fact that you feel like those pages are getting more action than you. Wishing you good luck and many great lays!
2006-10-11 13:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by sarahsmiles1222 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new man men who sit around and look at that stuff all the time are losers and if he would rather have that than real sex there is something wrong with him not you.
2006-10-11 13:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not you it is him. He is getting his satisfaction from the porn.
Give him the option. Me or the porn. If he can't handle your honesty that it hurts you and your relationship with him then move on and get over him quick. You deserve someone to love you and all of you.
2006-10-11 13:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.NetDogSoft.com
2006-10-11 14:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was somewhat aroused myself until you said "sex me up" if you talk like that I would never be horny either, now excuse me i have a date with a Hustler in a hour.
2006-10-11 13:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if hes going for the world 24 hour whack-off championships...
goodluck to him my record is 30...
2006-10-11 13:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHIC WHAT R U DOING? ? WHEN HE HAS THAT ERECTION FALL TO UR KNEES AND DO WHAT COMES NATURALLY!! TAKE CONTROL HONEY DON'T BE SCARED TO BE THE DOMINANT ONE AFTER ALL MAYBE THATS WHAT HE IS WAITING FOR!!
2006-10-11 13:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you honey are going to have to break that porn watching tell him you want him to stop it is only going to hurt your relationship more and more stop it now or leave.
2006-10-11 13:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try watching pron with him and get aroused with him and try out the sex acts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-11 13:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋