2006-10-11 13:23:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's the right guy for you you'll know when and how to tell him
2006-10-11 13:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by rclem1962 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. You could tell him to be gentle
because it been such a long time since you
have done anything. Or you could tell him
and see if he is honored to be your special man.
You know you should be proud of yourself
that you are still a virgin not embarrassed about it.
Whatever happens I wish you the best, I hope
you enjoy and make for lost time. If you change
your mind don't worry you time will come and
don't be embarrassed about your choices.
2006-10-11 13:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by DoubleR815 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be embarrassed. It depends on the guy. I was older, too. I didn't tell him until afterward, and he couldn't tell because I'd messed around enough. Prepare yourself as much as you can. Everything went GREAT, by the way, so don't stress! Start enjoying life while you're young. And good for you for being selective.
Don't let it seem like some major, complicated thing. Waiting a long time can build it up in your mind like it's a huge deal, but if you read enough, you will know what to do and know what to expect. I waited until I was in love. I might have done things differently another time around, but I chose a great person for my first, so I have no complaints.
2006-10-11 13:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sinner & Saint 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi. I was a virgin until I was 28.
I would not mention it until it seems probable that you two might or will make love. And then just be nice.
That is what I was able to do. I did not mention it until the evening of, I was very polite and made a little joke. She thought it was funny and a little nice. Things went well.
In the mean time there are plenty of very good "how to books" you can explore. I like the books of Lonnie Barbach esp For each other and for yourself. The flirting book by Cox is good. I like most of the stuff by DK publishing.
good luck.
2006-10-11 13:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well , it depends on how well u knw the guy or if u like him at all.
Do u like him ? If u do think about wether u want to be w/ him or not. How well do u knw him ? If u feel like u just met him or if u feel like u really knw him say....... " I want to keep my virginity..."
or " I still want to be a virgin" . However u decide to tell him, u shouldn't be embarassed b/c he should respect u 4 who u r and who u want to be .. vigin or not.
2006-10-11 13:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by puppygirl101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you married? ok then who cares its no big deal, sex is something special its not just something you do w/ every guy or girl you meet. i would say dont tell him untill you are sure you want him ta be your first then he should definetly know and dont waste your first time make sure you really love him and that he knows what he is doing its not just an " in and out" thing theres a lot more to it. and dont let anyone pressure you into anything, there is nothing wrong with it and i actually respect you for it.
2006-10-11 13:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by melvin_von_shmelvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should' t be embarrassed about being a virgin.... you might be a late bloomer but you have not done anything wrong... if you do find some guy just take it slow....... I would go get tested before I was to have sex with anyone, if that's the problem that you have about sex then you should bring it up before you two get hot and heavy.....
2006-10-11 13:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him unless it comes up in conversation and you feel comfortable saying it. There is nothing to be embarassed about. Whether or not you're wating for marriage or just haven't had the oppurtunity, he should respect that and be ok with it. If he's not, then he's not who you want to be with anyway.
2006-10-11 13:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by shelby_kay_91 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry, he will be so happy. The odds of finding a virgin in this day and age are astronomical. He will feel so special. Hopefully he knows what he is doing and you will be in for the time of your life.
You have my Blessings, kar
2006-10-11 13:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by kar_summers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be embarassing. I wouldn't make a big deal about it, and probably not even mention it, but shouldn't lie or anything if it comes up.
2006-10-11 13:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tim J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should be embarrass about? you should be proud of your dignity and people who lost their virginity at such young age before even knowing what is life all about should be more ashamed than you cause no matter what year or place you are in you are for who you are not for how people want you to be and if the person can't accept it better not to have the person in your life at all cause the person should accept you as you are. i believe most parents and religion will teach us to be good.........
2006-10-11 16:46:10 · answer #11 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋