have girls come over and never invites me but he loves me but I think he don't know I can do it and i am getting so despert to do it but I have no one to do it with what sould I do??? I need help!
2006-10-11 13:22:15 · 8 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl... DO NOT 'DO IT' WITH THIS GUY.
There are 'red flags' or warning signs all over your message on here that speak of a very very unhealthy situation for you.
Don't "do it" with any guy unless he proves by his actions and attitudes, consistently over a long period of time, that he is absolutely your #1 fan, and who YOU feel trusted by, who you trust, and who you feel CONSISTENTLY SAFE around.
I'm concerned by the way your question is put, that you actually aren't NEARLY ready for sex, in terms of your ability to reason through situations of safety, judge people's motives and character, understand what healthy relationships are, and understand and handle any consequences of what it is you want to do.
Don't have sex to prove to ANYONE (including yourself, your friends, your boyfriends, your parents, anyone!), that you "CAN". If you do, you're in for a lot of heartaches, honey.
2006-10-11 13:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by ladyfraser04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!!
Im telling you all these young people wanting to ruin their life all I can do is tell you that you are making a big mistake!
I missed up when I was young and I almost never forgave myself for it... now that I have some since and have gotten married I realize how big of a mistake sex is when you are not married I wish I would have waited like my husband did. : )
2006-10-11 20:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not really sure about what your talking about..but if you want to show him that you can do it..invite some other boys over and do it. Then he might figure out that you can and he will invite you over too.
2006-10-11 20:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what? Have sex? If this guy just wants you over to have sex, dump the jerk sister. Don't give it up to some guy that makes you feel like you "have to" just to keep you around.
2006-10-11 20:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by little fairy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you, but hangs out with other girls?
I'm sorry. I'm going to need more clarification.
2006-10-11 20:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by OMG. It's Laura. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU WANT TO CATCH AIDS OR OTHER DISEASES BY SLEEPING WITH A BOY WHO HAS SLEPT WITH LOTS OF OTHER GIRLS GROSS FIND SOMEONE WHO LIKES YOU FOR YOU NOT BECAUSE YOU WILL PUT OUT!
2006-10-11 20:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should just stop your worries and then the guy will see that you are capable of doing it.
2006-10-11 20:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by CHUCK NORRIS. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there's no one else, there's always yourself!
2006-10-11 20:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋