I started to like this best friend of mine a couple of months ago (we were best friends before I started to like her). Right now I can't find any hints that she also likes me that way. I've given her some hints before but I'm not sure if she gets them or not. The thing is, we still talk a lot, does it mean that if she figures out that I like her but she doesn't like me that way, she would talk less and spend less time with me? I'm sort of planning to tell her how I really feel for her, but not sure if I should do it NOW or wait for another couple of months and see how things turn out because both of us like to take things slowly. So far she hasn't shown any clue yet. I'm just really confused. Does it mean she doesn't like me that way at all or is she just too shy and trying to hide her feelings? Any help is greatly appreciated!
2006-10-11 13:16:19 · 10 answers · asked by kentfeo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i don't know without seeing how she acts around you. I'd watch for bodylanguage clues like leaning in toward you when you talk for example. See what her body language is saying? is she talking about any other guys like saying she is interested in some one else or anything if she doesn't seem to be looking at another guy there is a good chance that she likes you.
2006-10-11 13:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by snail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to two of my good freinds they were best freinds and the girl started to like the girl. "Justin" knew "April" liked him. Justin didn't like at first but kept talking to her as usual. After awhile he finally decided that he liked her and they've been going out for 2 years. I think you should be straight up with it and tell her instead of dropping hints. Sometimes if dropping hints is easier ask who she likes and alot times the results are good. Or ask her friends that works also. She might be shy as you said. GOOD LUCK:)
2006-10-11 13:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Legendmaka' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it could be either way. You will never know unless you come right out and ask her. Just tell her you love the friendship that you have but that you would like to advance the friendship to dating, but don't want to ruin the friendship. That if she would rather just be friends that you are OK with that too. That way she don't feel as awkward about it.
2006-10-11 13:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by tkpeverill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately too shy to show her feelings, most girls are. before you actually tell her, u should ask one of her other friends if they think that she likes u. or u could try to get her jelous by datung another girl, but that could be very risky, especially when it involves a friendship. just tell her before its too late, or u may regret it later. BEST OF LUCK!
2006-10-11 13:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she knows that you like her yet. To find out ask some of her other friends who she likes. If they tell you to guess, guess yourself and other people she might like. If they say maybe then she probably likes that person
2006-10-11 13:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, buddy try something. Maybe you can ask her if she has friends that are cute. or try to scope at girls when you are next to her to see if she reacts to it.
2006-10-11 13:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO jk i did not read your story im sorry but i need points
good luck
2006-10-11 13:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by matthew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt like you you might ruen ur friendship
2006-10-11 13:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by irma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well buddy your fuc ked i have to go
2006-10-11 13:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dumb stupid question doesn't even deserve an answer. Thanks for the duce, though.
2006-10-11 13:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋