i know that my boyfriend loves me but he is always making comments about my weight and i dont know how to tell him to stop with out hurting his feelings
2006-10-11 13:09:54 · 11 answers · asked by tawny s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he dosent seem to mind hurting your feelings....listen...if he loves you your weight wouldnt be an issue!....dump him because it will only get worse as time goes on and heaven forbid if you have a baby for him and gain even more weight...he will make your life miserable....
2006-10-11 13:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you know you have a weight problem, but you hate it when he says that stuff to you and you want him to stop. If you don't, you're going to be the one with the hurt feelings.
2006-10-11 13:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all..if he really loved you do you think hed be makign fun of ur weight? or maybe its just his way of telling you you should lose some weight..but the healthy way..and to tell him without hurting him just tell him straight out and ask him why hes doing it and tell him that its a hurting u...hes hurting u so u telling him isnt going to hurt his feelings..and maybe he doesnt know it hurts u or that hes even doing it some guys dont think about wat they say before they say it...so...the next time u talk to him..ask him why hes making fun of ur weight...tell him its hurting you..and if it is because he would like u to lose some weight then ask him to do somthing to to make him more healthy for morale support...i hope that helps
2006-10-11 13:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by cold_killa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is his feeling important and not yours? He's hurting you and your just going to take it? If he loved you so much would he be making rude comments? Tell him to stop or get out of the relationship that's not healthy!
2006-10-11 13:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say just let him know how it's making you feel. Since he cares about you, he should stop immediately if it's hurting you. I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he's oblivous to what he is doing.
2006-10-11 13:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by JWall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about hurting his feelings, since he doesn't seem to be overly considerate about yours.
The next time he makes a comment about your weight, tell him that you don't appreciate his remarks because they are rude and insensitive.
2006-10-11 13:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you worry about hurting his feelings????He certainly dowsn't care if he hurts you when he is so inconsiderate about making fun of you because of your weight. Tell him up front how you feel...
2006-10-11 13:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u concerned about hurting his feelings b/c obviously he's hurting urs tell him how u feel straight up
2006-10-11 13:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by I love my boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt seem to me he's concerned about hurting your feelings, but maybe the way to make him stop is to tell him he is huirting your feelings.
2006-10-11 13:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, so just tell him say im fat one more time and im screwing you over, im serious. then walk away and leave.
2006-10-11 13:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by kool kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋