i had this pic on facebook with me and my steer (i show cattle) and i said something about i should of won but politics (the person that won knowing the judge) well the person that did win saw the picture because it said they left a comment on the pic but nothing showed up when i looked for the comment do you think they were offended i feel bad but dont no what to do... PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-10-11 13:03:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You never know who anyone else might know - you've already learned your lesson. Never say anything negative about a person until you know the person you're saying it to VERY well. And NEVER comment about a person's looks, weight, religion, politics, etc. These are VERY old rules, but they still hold true.
If you really want to reconnect with this person - just say something like "I really respect you and am very sorry I hurt your feelings." They have to take the next step - if they want to. Nothing lost-nothing gained.
2006-10-11 13:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by 34th B.G. - USAAF 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you did is not that bad. Don't worry about it. I'll bet lots of people are thinking the same thing you said...including the person you offended. The judge should have removed himself from judging to avoid just this thing. If the person who may have been offended ever says anything to you about it just say "I'm really sorry you saw what I said."
2006-10-11 20:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as the technical aspects of Facebook, you received a notification because they left a comment, but they deleted it before you could see it - which probably means, they were unsure about what they had to say, or if they wanted to say it - if they were REALLY mad, or thought it was REALLY funny, you would have heard from them. They're probably on the fence about how to react - maybe you could explain to them it was meant tongue-in-cheek. Good luck =)
2006-10-11 22:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by SecondStar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you withdraw what was said in facebook? If so, do it and invite the person to view your edited pic. Otherwise, forgive yourself and learn from it. You sound genuinely sorry for your comment and we think you've suffered enough.
2006-10-11 20:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not give it a second thought, you have a right to your opinion. And they did not have to much to say they did not leave a comment. Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-11 21:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my friend, do not worry about. If you offended somebody, it was not your intend. So say sorry to God. And make that the end of that. OK?
2006-10-11 20:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, b/c there's nothing you can do about it! Yup, Facebook/MySpace/etc. are all lotsa fun, but ya never know who's looking at your site......
2006-10-11 20:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rapunzel XVIII 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he always told me he loved me only on phone but can not tell me phisycaly so i asked him if we were just friends or lovers so he got angry and said we were just friends since then he hasint called me
2006-10-11 20:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by Aminat j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get over it. everyone gets offended sometimes. im sure you didnt intend to do it.
2006-10-11 20:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Reddy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over it. you can't make everyone happy.
2006-10-11 20:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by jamieinreno 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋