2006-10-11 13:00:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
would u leave or stay
2006-10-11 13:03:20 · update #1
I am reminded of a question asking if I would marry a transgendered woman. My remark was essentially, if I go to bed with a Patricia, I better not wake up to a Patrick. Some folks in this neighborhood haven't really settled their place.
If my wife tonight told me she was a lesbian, I would say "That's nice, what's for dinner?" She would be telling me if she were going to leave for her female lover. If she instead said "I want to change my gender, I want to be a man." I would say "That explains a lot, what's for dinner?" I would help her in her transition, but there would come a point when intimacy would simply not be possible--I get my engine revved by women, not men. So there would have to be a separation at some point in the transition.
Now if I told her that I wanted to be a woman, she would say, "That's nice, could you set the table, please?" She could probably live with me far, far better than I could live with him who used to be a her, but there would still likely be an inevitable separation--after all she would then be married to a lesbian.
2006-10-12 09:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first reaction would be 'You're a HE????'.
Seriously though it depends on the situation, there can be many shades of gray. If my girlfriend said she was a lesbian I would say OK and we would work out the best way forward. You can be of one sexual persuasion and still love someone of the other, things can work out.
2006-10-11 13:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by lazerustheduck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you have a lot of growing up to do, if you are that naive not to know before hand. Or there is just plain old denial? You decide.
2006-10-11 13:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure how i would feel but i have a friend who's girl just told him she was bi and he's ok with it so it really depends on who u are as a person and what kind of relationship you wnated and if u will be comfortable
2006-10-11 13:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by I love my boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend told me he was gay.. I would be devastated, because I love being with him.. but I love him so much, I would be supportive of him..
2006-10-11 13:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by The ugly duckling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if would hurt, break my heart, but if I truly loved him....I would
support his decision! And let him know I'm with him 100%
2006-10-11 13:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i really loved him then i would except it and learn how to deal with it. it might be acward but really, they are just like you or mean, just different. no one else should care about your bussiness. People have to learn that
2006-10-11 13:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to see how fast he could get his asz out the door!!!
2006-10-11 13:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say something like "Ok, that's great"
2006-10-11 13:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by BananaWeezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel shocked, disappointed, and leave him/her. . . . FOR LIFE!!!
2006-10-11 13:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋