I'm in my middle fifties and recently widowed I'm disabled with arthritis do you see any future for me

Answer 1

Of course.
Everyone has a future but you have to make it happen for yourself.
You can't sit around moping about your disabilities and the loss of your husband. You've had time to grieve I'm sure and your husband would've wanted you to move on with your life and get active.
Although you've got arthritis, this doesn't limit your ability to be alive and do things, it just makes it harder.
Get into a club or start hanging out with more friends. Get involved with your community. As long as you don't just sit around all day long wasting your life away, you'll have a future.

Answer 2

I sm sorry to hear about the loss of your spouse.

I do see a future for you physically, spiritually, in in the dating world. If you are humble and accepting of the women in your age bracket and not perfectionistic or critical, you already have an edge over the guys that I have dated in your age group. It is such a turn off when they say something like "your *** is not perfect enuf" or my ex-wife was prettier than you. I just feel if a man puts forth a message that the woman that he is pursuing is the most wonderful thing on the planet and can see around flaws and imperfections then she will reciprocate fully and you will find a true friend, companion and lover.

I hope this helps you. Once you find the inner beauty in her, don't ever, ever, ever, let out the slightest message that her inner beauty is wonderful despite she is not a 23 year old hottie. That will really hurt her and if you do that to women, then I don't think there would be a future.

I was diagnosed with arthritis when I was in my 20's and have had many years of relief in between flare ups. I don't know your type of arthritis, but I believe that mine is managed greatly with putting it in the back of my mind and continueing to get going with things. I am almost in denial about the whole thing and the more I work out and enjoy my activities, the less I feel its effects.

I believe in you and in your ability to make an intention to draw love and activity into your life and to appreciate it in increments that it is received. The more you give it and the more you appreciate it, the more enriched your life will be.

Namaste.

Answer 3

i see a very bright future 4 u. all u need to do is ask others for help if u need them to. thats called common courtisy.