ok so i was just asked out to day and i sad yes. but the problem is i dont wanna kiss and i am not supposted to and i have always been good friends with this guy and i know kissing is a big part of his other relationships and i dont want him to think that i dont want to but really i cant for religion puropses and how do i tell him i want to date him but not kiss?
2006-10-11 12:53:31 · 22 answers · asked by dani jace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him as easily as you told us.... go call him, write a note, face to face...
2006-10-11 12:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by swingorstrikeout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't beat around the bush and just tell him. If he doesn't respect that then stop dating him.
I am so proud of you that words cant even say.
You are a female that stands for something so babygirl you wont fall for a lot of the games guys try to play.
His reaction will tell you if he is really interested in you.
Also if he wants a girl that does kiss respect that and know that he isnt right for you and move on.
2006-10-11 13:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by HERE4U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just be blunt with him and tell him that because of your religion you don't believe in kissing.. If he respects you, he will be ok with it. If not, maybe it would be better for you to find a guy who believes the same as you, because in the future, difference of religion can really hurt a relationship..
2006-10-11 12:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by The ugly duckling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What religion is that?
Just let him know it's a religious thing, and it's nothing against him.
If he's not going to want to be with you because he can't kiss you, that's pretty low and you could do better anyway.
2006-10-11 12:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by godathonone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem...if you really dont want to kiss him just tell him..i know its hard but your going to have to sooner or later. Or if you dont want to kiss him when there are other people there, play spin the bottle with your friends and his friends.
2006-10-11 12:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes! girl- you need to grow up= religion shouldnt dicate life- after all your parents kissed and did more to have you! Be honest and tell him - thou u dont know what ur missing....and you probably wont have any luck with relationships if thats your outlook.
2006-10-11 12:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you simply tell him you really like him but you have a committment to purity and you hope that he can respect that. If he can not, then you really don't want to be with him anyway. I am so proud of you for having this belief, don't let peer pressure change your heart. You will be rewarded someday!!!
2006-10-11 12:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Amy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. and you have a real reason too. if he likes you he will understand. my bf waited for me like 4 almost 5 months before i said it was ok to kiss him and i didnt really have a real reason just that i wasnt ready. so just tell him
2006-10-11 12:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just be honest and tell him and then state your reasons. If he understands, then boy, you found a good boyfriend. If he thinks your nuts, then he's not the guy for you.
2006-10-11 12:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by northern_chick7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well say you haven't been together that long and that it's to early in the relationship and that your not ready to kiss.
2006-10-11 12:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of ANY religion that forbids kissing. What religion are you talking about? If Christian, point me to a verse. :)
2006-10-11 12:55:12 · answer #11 · answered by PJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋