Any advice for me, im 22yrs old and still as shy as I was back in elementary. Its so hard for me to approach and talk to woman. As much as I try I just cant get over my shyness when it comes to woman. Dont get me wrong I do meet and date some women..........like one woman every 3 to 4 months, but they approach me. And even then they never work out I get stuck being the "friend". I've never really been in a real relationship before. IM NOT A VIRGIN! I just need some help with my shyness. Its gotten to the point where its just embarrassing. Im 22yrs old for gods sake and still shy. Most girls have told me that im cute all the time. But even so, I still cant get over my shyness! Its just when I meet a beautiful woman my mind goes blank and dont know what to say or how to make a convo. wit her. And when I do try to approach a girl and make convo wit her, I look and sound so stupid cause my mind just sits there blank without a clue of wat to make convo about. Do I have a problem? HELP ME
2006-10-11 12:47:34 · 7 answers · asked by tf8405 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not shy at all and way younger,,, why do you care what ppl think? GO for it, if it doesnt work- who gives a crud- do what ever you want...if it doesnt work out, you will never have to see her again. Start saying hey to random people- sounds stupid, but you wont become as shy,,, also you dont have to go up right away and spew out a cheasy catch phrase- say something like i saw you today at the _____, or do you_______- then say thats cool, and act real interessted! good luck!
this is great! i was reading your previoius asked questions and you said that you dont know how to get a 34 yr. old to stop calling you, then you asked can a 21 get a 34yr, old pregnent! /HHAHAHAHAa that is great!
2006-10-11 12:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok that you are shy around pretty girls you can not help that. I am the same way but I am 15 yeah I know i'm young but i do not care. Just wait in a couple of days or weeks you are going to come out of this shy stage.bye
2006-10-11 13:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by freaklady09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put yourself in social settings. Practice talking to all types of women (ugly and beautiful). Believe me women like having guys nervous around them. I love it when guys are nervous around me it just makes me feel beautiful. Don't be too hard on yourself. You said you are not a virgin so that must mean you are not as shy as you think you are.
2006-10-11 12:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by I Care 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! you have develop into extra beneficial than pal-deliver chat on the water fountain. For HER sake do no longer make her sense compelled to make a pass on you. In some states it somewhat is extra beneficial than an "awkward" it somewhat is a criminal offense, i'm going to be blunt and this is how our lifestyle judges you, and you have no longer have been given any administration over it. think of of ways the relationship would be performed out once you attempt and bypass someplace public along with her. Her person pals exterior of artwork will ask your self why she is "relationship" a intense college-er. Your youthful pals will think of the relationship is "cool" and you're able to be able to desire to be some form of stud to become in contact with an older experienced female. Yeah it somewhat is approximately it. you choose a competent short speech on the way it is so great to have an "person" pal who treats me as someone too. hint hint she would be in a position to get the fact you're making a huge distinction between you the pal, and not legally an person that can bypass and function a lager along with her. additionally say " i'm fortunate to have this form of great "pal" such as you, and that's great to have the skill to share some laughs at the same time at artwork. and so on...
2016-12-08 13:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahah. i am shy as well,but i am 19.
man that is a very hard thing, i mean i cannot get rid of shyness either i like this girl but i cannot tell her for the same reason as yours. probably you are not CUTE as you said it. if not, girls had talk to you etc etc.
good luck
2006-10-11 12:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have a problem. sounds like you dont have any friends. im gonna suggest you make some friends. learn some social skills the old fashioned way. talk to people at work or who live close by, dont spend all day inside, go outside, be active, dont be fat
2006-10-11 12:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right? Four months ago you had a girlfriend and another girl calling you all the time. I suspect you're not as shy as you claim.
2006-10-11 12:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋