Okay, so my stupid idiot boyfriend told me today when i asked him if he had feelings for someone else, that "hes not going to lie, he does kinda like the other girl", and I told him it was ***ing over, and to never ever make contact with me again. How do I forget him? I want to talk to him so bad! Just to ask why, why did he do this to me? Why has he been lying to me for so long?? And maybe to hurt his feelings and make him cry! Im so miserable, how do i get rid of this urge to ask him all that? I cant talk to him, cant call him, because that will show im stressing over this, and I dont want to seem weak.
2006-10-11 12:43:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You try and be tough, yes, it is going to be hard, but in time you will get over him, it is better to know now, then putting any more time and energy on him, don't worry about asking him why, he does not know, he just wants it all. Just move on, you will be alright.
Remember the next relationship, take it slow, so you can get to know him!
2006-10-11 12:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to talk to him, then don't talk to him, and if you do want to talk to him, then talk to him... that's how simple it is.
He probably likes you very much if he was your boyfriend and all. Obviously he trusted you since he said that he liked more than one person, but yet chose to be your boyfriend instead of hers. The only reason to worry about seeming weak is if you still care about his opinion, and it sounds like you do. If he said "Oh, she's pretty nice, I like her", then that's probably not his way of breaking up with you, and it sounds like he wasn't trying to hurt you at all.
He's probably crying already because of you being sad, even if he doesn't cry in front of you, so I wouldn't go to much effort just to make it worse on the both of you. The only real way to know is to ask him though.
2006-10-11 20:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tim J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juzt give it some time dont let him know it botherz you even though it really does(and Im talkin from experience). If he really cares about you he'll come around and he'll call you or talk to you. If he does'nt then you know it wasn't meant to be and be glad you found out sooner before you really started developing stronger feelings for him. Thingz will work out for the best.
2006-10-11 20:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Karina O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do thinks that don't involve you thinking of him.
Trying to forget something, is to remember it.
If all you try to do is forget him, and not talk to him, that's all you're going to think about.
Just let everything chill out.
Don't worry about him.
Go have fun!
2006-10-11 19:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by godathonone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too worried about your image with him and less worried about the substance of what is actually going on.
Careful, or it may bite you in the azz -- if it hasn't already.
2006-10-11 19:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From reading your other posts, it seems he just wanted some butt. Stop being so easy ~ cherish yourself and your body.
2006-10-11 19:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you still like him.
2006-10-11 19:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋