it seems as though bad boys love me! Not gonna lie, i used to love bad boys as well, but now im trying to stay away from them. Im getting better at pin-pointing them out but they still keep flowing in my direction. Im looking for someone I could be serious with and you cant be serious with bad boys. I do frequent the bars often with my group of girls, so I think that could be the problem, but what is a 24 year old single girl supposed to do? Sit at home and just wait around? I dont think so...
2006-10-11 12:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by April 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give me a chance
2006-10-11 12:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by sam402ny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best way to find the right somebody is to quit looking so hard.
Stay away from the bar scene. Your chances there are slim to none.
Pursue your own interests and passions. If you love photography, for example, take a class at a local college or a photography workshop. Find clubs or groups that get together in your area (or a little farther away) to meet people with the same interests as you.
Do some volunteer work. Men doing volunteer work are good catches. Try to imagine the type of man you would like to meet, or what type of career he might have. Frequent the places where you might expect to find him.
Above all else, stay unattached until the right one comes along. Good men pass by women who already have someone hanging on their arm.
Remember, pursue your own passions and find like minded people to hang with!
Good luck.
2006-10-11 12:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by sublimetranscendental 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 06:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could pinpoint what it is about you that attracts the "bad boys" you could refrain from doing it and solve your problem. A hard task, but it will help.
Also, you might try to see what "nice" guys are attracted too and emulate it. Ask your guy friends, I'm sure they'll have tips.
2006-10-11 12:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by laura_ghill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face reality, you're just a bad boy magnet and that's all you'll ever be. It's in your scorpion blood to be with this type of guy. No other type will ever satisfy you. You'll just be bored to tears and end up cheating on them with bad boys. So at least be true to yourself if you can't be true to anyone else.
2006-10-11 12:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to sit around. Volunteer with organizations that interest you, get involved in politics, get involved in a church. Go back to school. If you don't want bad boys quit hanging out where they do....
2006-10-11 12:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i honestly think you can't find the guy you want in a club or a bar... there are so many other ways in finding the guy for you... Sometimes, people always look at the wrong places that they don't realise the one they are looking for is right in front of them... Just give it time, and the right one will come your way...
2006-10-11 12:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. change your association of friends
2. change the way you dress
3. change your manner of speech
4. start hanging out at different places
5. try going out on your own and mingling at some upper class clubs
these are just for starters, good luck!
2006-10-11 12:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a good boy and highly attracted to you.... e-mail me ;)
2006-10-11 12:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋