Does it take the pressure off of you? Do you find it attractive? I think about hitting on guys and asking them out, but I'm afraid how they will respond. I know sometimes men like to be in charge of things like that. Any thoughts? Please no mean answers.
2006-10-11 12:31:08 · 27 answers · asked by vmarie84 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bring it on, go after what you want, don't be shy. Smart guys like strong girls.
2006-10-11 12:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, in all honesty it wouldn't bother me at all. It really does take some of the pressure off. I could see it going the other way as well. If a guy asked a girl, it would take the pressure off of the girl. But as far as I know, most guys I know wouldn't have a problem with it. If you are getting any signals that he likes you, go for it.
2006-10-11 12:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by JWall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I would really like that. Of course, it is 'tradition' that the guy does the asking, but I'm not so sure it really matters to me. It does take off the pressure, though. By the way, attractiveness would certainly help.
2006-10-11 12:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll for a guy like me i would find it very sexy if a girl approached me and did all the talking and asked me out.it would make me think that this girl is either very lonely or a bit too friendly. either way it wouldnt lead to a relationship.because i would be afraid of her talking to guys too much.but i am a very picky guy.usually guys go straight up to a girl they like and discribe themselves to the girl and tell her that she is exactly what he is looking for...now if a girl did that to a guy the guy would feel like he cant live up to what that girl is looking for. some guys can handle a women in charge but most guys cant.
2006-10-11 13:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by dutchsega 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be psyched if a girl asked me out!!! If you are having any thoughts, go ahead and try it. I think all girls should do it once, just to see what it feels like, to feel that fear of rejection. I don't go through that because I'm the fearless type. If a girl says yes, it's yes. If she says no, then it's no. I will live. Go in with that attitude and you'll be fine.
2006-10-11 12:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by the one who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its cool. it could show desperation though. so once you show interest, you need to back off a bit and play A LITTLE hard to get. not too much, but if you want to keep him interested you need to make him feel as if you are a catch and not just a fish jumped into the boat (sorry, bad analogy). guys are problem solvers by nature and want have a bit of a challenge. walk the line, dont cross it or you ll seem like a b*tch for leading him on as if you like him and them acting as if you dont. BE CAREFULL.
2006-10-11 12:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say it takes a lot of pressure off of the guy because you have no idea how much it takes out of us askin out a girl we like. it can be very hard. so if i had the chance of bein asked out by a girl i would be fine with that : )
2006-10-11 12:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by CH CH CH CHIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm kindof old fashioned so I'de prefer to be the one doing the asking, nothing about being in charge though. But hinting and such, go for it.
2006-10-11 12:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by Blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a pretty good question!..depends on how you come up to a guy and ask him out.i guess it is ok for a girl to ask a guy out!because you have alot of shy guys out there that wont have the courage to ask a girl out!so i salute you! :)
2006-10-11 12:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ghass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love for a women to ask me out. i hate always being the one to start it. i am pretty shy and it would be nice to see someone actually interested in me for a change
2006-10-11 12:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by willyholdem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him and somehow get the idea across that u want 2 b with him and let him do the asking.
my opinion about is.......i don't really think it is cool when a girl asks a guy out but my sissy did it and she is not that cool.lol.
2006-10-11 12:35:34 · answer #11 · answered by ray-lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋