like she wont let me and her be alone and shes is not allowed out of her moms site at like football games at school is this normal im 15 shes 14 her mom wont let her date untill 15 wich i am not complaning about that so yeah i just want to no is this normal or like how can i gain her moms trust my gf said her mom doesnt trust her so its her not me ok like how can i make things better we have ben togather for 8 months to ok thanks
2006-10-11 12:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by crash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its normal. so many parents are overprotective. it just takes time for them to let go. i guess if you hang around her more and show her mom that your not trying to do anything bad and wont do anything bad. im sure in time her mom will let her have some more freedom. just be patient
2006-10-11 12:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is very normal for any mother who doesnt want her daughter to turn into a teenage walking hormone. Most parents will not let their daughters be alone especially with a boy at such a young age, due to horror stories you hear about other teens in society today ( such as 13 year olds becoming pregnant, catching stds, running away, doing drugs, etc). Its a very scary world to a parent, and in all honestly theres really nothing you can do about that, because technically to her, you are the enemy. You cannot gain her trust, infact you might as well stop trying. Mothers dont want to be bestfriends with their daughters boyfriends especially at young ages like 13, 14, and 15, because it never lasts! And i know you think oh i dont know what im talking about, never been in love blah blah blah, but wat ur talking about happens to everybody when they first start dating. All you can do is be a good boyfriend by understanding her parents rules, and abiding by them. After they realize that you respect their rules, they will be more likely to change and give u more freedom, like going out on ur own, cuz u will develop a trust with one another. It does take time this doesnt happen over night.
2006-10-11 19:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what youl need is a printer or a pen n paper. say this. back when the country was born females who were 13- 14 became wives, due to the fact that without medicine a normal human life is aprox 30 yrs. now due to the sharp increase in life the human body hasnt adapted to the change. it is also proven that experience at a young age would decrease the likey hood of her finding out experiences that were attainable at her current age. this refers to the alone time (not including intercourse) such as kissing, interaction, and body movement. for the consequences of sheltering the child will result her in becoming a male morale builder ( ive seen it happen a thousand times)
2006-10-11 19:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. You're both young and if her mom doesn't want her out doing God knows what behind the bleachers then you will just have to deal with it. If you're serious about this girl you will just be patient until her mother is willing to trust you or to let her daughter out of her sight, there is nothing else you can do.
2006-10-11 19:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how familar....my own mother is like that....im with a guy secretly and im not allowed to date til 16 so that sucks and its not you, it is her, her mom just wants her to keep her virtue and protect her from guys who would use her...be patient :)
2006-10-11 19:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't get it her mom wants you to do her first
2006-10-11 19:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋