What should i do?

Question

ok, i know i i asked this yesterday, but i didn't get very many answers, so...........

ok, there is this guy, that i like, and i want to invite him to come w/ me and my friends for halloween. but, here's the catch, he has a girlfriend. we all think she is this "stuck up" girl, and this guy is really sweet, but anyways............ i want to invite him, but then i would have to invite his gf. she is always around when i see him, which isn't very much bcause we go to diff schools, and i don't really want to invite his gf. what should i do? (we are 14 btw, just in case that might help w/ u answerin the question)

o ya, i know he likes me, bcause my friend told me. she asked him and she said that he said yes.

Answer 1

dont invite without g/f. invite both. invite other guys also. it could work out for ya.

Answer 2

What are you doing trying to hook up with another girl's guy? Regardless of how stuck up the gf is, in my book, hitting on another girl's guy is a no no.

It sounds like they're glued to the hip. Unless you tell him that you have feelings for him, anything else you do and say to keep his gf away from the T&T is just going to come off suspicious or rude. If he likes his girlfriend, obviously he will do things with her.

Stop playing the game. Just tell him you like him or make some obvious move. If he has no interest in you, you can move on and stop all the uneccessary drama. They're a couple, and the only way youre going to have him all to yourself is if they break up.

G'luck.

Answer 3

If you reason for inviting him is because you want to be his girlfriend then don't do it...at your age, you can wait to do something when he doesn't have a girlfriend or while you are waiting, you will find someone else that you want to date...if she really is 'stuck up', he will figure it out and move on, unless of course that is the kind of girls he likes and he stays with her, which will tell you that he wasn't the right person for you to begin with...

Answer 4

Just invite the GF. When she is there tell your friends to pull him away from her than you can talk to him. Don't worry they won't last if she is stuck up.

Answer 5

Its funny how you called his girlfriend stuck up... because the reality is that you dont know her. If he is sweet then chances are she may be okay.
The problem isnt her here.. it is you like him.
respectfully i would say if you invite him ( since him and his girl are close) there is a chance she may tag along.
and since you dont like her dont invite him.
You need to wait until he is single again or find someone else that is free.
I can not encourage you to disrespect yourself by going after someone who is taken because you wouldnt want someone going after your man.

Answer 6

Is your friend happy with his girlfriend..If so then it will have to be excepted..If not then your friend needs to get rid of her...As to your question..I would invite him..Just try to keep it between you guys..If he doesn't want her to know he will not tell her..I hope this makes sense

Answer 7

go up to him when you see him and give him an invitation *but* make sure that you write inside the invitation *for you only*. Thats what i would do...

Answer 8

Just invite him if he askes if he can bring his girl friend be polite and do what you think is right.

Answer 9

Chill, take him aside when he's not with his "girlfriend" and ask for his e-mail and invite him by e-mail. Or if you think they're absolutly inseparable then maybe you should ask yourself if he really likes you. Are you noticeble?

Answer 10

Invite him when she is not around.