my friend is really depressed b cuz she cant get a homecoming date! and she thinks it is b cuz of her weight. she isnt like huge but she is cunky. and i just wanted to prove to her that there are alot of men out there that wouldnt date only skinny girl!! so please help me out here !!
2006-10-11 12:17:26 · 14 answers · asked by molly 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
First off, I'm really surprised at the number of women who answered this question. LOL, I don't think a woman can say what a man like, just as a man can't say what a woman wants. Just thought that was funny.
This is an honest answer from an honest guy, and I'm not going to pull any punches.
Your friend seems to have a self image problem because of her weight. Attitude can make a big difference in the attractiveness of a woman. If she has very low self-esteem, and losing weight will help, then do it. You can go work out with her, and help her with a diet. With some hard work and dedication, this won't be a problem anymore.
Unfortunately 99% of all guys in high school are very shallow. Most guys will not want to date, or be scene with a chunky chick because it will hurt their reputation. This only changes when the chunky girl puts out, but they will still normally not want to be seen at public events with that girl. This is just the way it is, and I'm sorry.
However, while this may sound bleak there is a ray of hope. There are many good looking guys out there that do like thick chicks. I would suggest looking around on the Internet, and finding a new boyfriend and prom date.
Tell her to be careful though because many guys go after bigger chicks because they think the lower self esteem makes them easier to get into the sack.
Good Luck
2006-10-11 13:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What the hell is "cunky"? Lol. Jesus christ, learn to spell people. I believe you mean "CHUNKY". Am I just new, and haven't learned the newest word in the ebonics dictionary?
2006-10-11 19:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cant give a helpful resonse because I do know know what cunky means...cunky is not a word
2006-10-11 19:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats cunky? Is this new slang?
2006-10-11 19:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by h_tidewell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of latino cultures, and african cultures believe that curvier women are way sexier than skinny ones. Help her boost her confidence by taking her to a salsa club- everyone dances with everyone.
Best of Luck!
-Angie
PS Remind her that homecoming is a small part of her life
2006-10-11 19:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by AngelicGlow777 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My question to your friend is "How masy guys have you asked?" Attitude has more to do with getting a date than size. If she walks around feeling sorry for herself, her body language reflects it and men get that vibe. If she is dead set on a date, help her find a guy friend who wants to go. She needs to ask, not wait around until someone does.
2006-10-11 19:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the other person worries about your weight I would say: do not date him. There is nothing wrong with weight . The mos important is attitude.
2006-10-11 19:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by mfacio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all JIM JAM that is really rude and not true at all.you don't have to be a jerk.if you're going to say stuff like that then you should go like live in a hole for the rest of your life.anyway since that's taken care of,tell Ur friend that she shouldn't worry about it,its just as fun to go by yourself.good luck.
2006-10-11 19:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by sadiej13 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like a girl whose a little chunky. As long as she is attractive and has a good personality, I'd take her out.
2006-10-11 19:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cunky girls have cankels.
2006-10-11 19:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋