i trust him, and never have been able to go with him so far, tillnow, i finallyhave a babysitter, i have a 5 yr old. We have ben living together for 4 years and now that i told him i wanna go hang out he flipped, and said i cant go out with him.....what gives??
2006-10-11 12:12:34 · 23 answers · asked by nikel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hello? we are both white have good money but he just wont marry me till hes 25
2006-10-11 12:20:33 · update #1
--Ive been contemplating hiring a private investigator to go watch him one night?? do you thinkthis is a good idea??
2006-10-11 12:23:30 · update #2
He is cheating on you! If you cant see that by now I'm sorry. He will tell you everything that you want to hear but when it comes down to it, he will back out or lie or get pissed. You need to get out now!
Hire your investigator, it will be worth it!
2006-10-11 12:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to worry. There isnt anything that he needs to do until 4am. Now he does need time to himself so let him enjoy time out with the guys. Once a week set a date night so you both can go out together and enjoy each other with out the little one.Has he just recently starting acting this way? Pay more attention and see what if you get any signs that he might be seeing someone. When you try to hide and sneak things usually come out in the end. In your case I hope he is just hanging out with the guys. If you cant go with him and you have a babysitter hang out with your girls. That might get him to change his mind. As long as he knows your going to be in the house with the child he knows he can leave.If you are both making good money then there shouldnt be a reason you cant afford a babysitter. Stop asking this man to marry you. Its been 4 yrs and it hasnt happened. He is still a young immature male . It would be better if you moved on and found someone that enjoys a solid relationship and wants to be married. This man doesnt and has no time for family. Why continue to live with this man if youre not happy?
2006-10-11 12:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just amazes me how many young people with kids live together. This happens all of the time. Of course he's around girls and doing things he shouldn't.
He flips out because he doesn't want to be questioned. Ask him to babysit the kid and let you go out until 4 a.m.
This is a bad situation. You shouldnt' be living together and he's moving on emotionally.
2006-10-11 12:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i sense something sinister!! did he give you a reason that he didn't want you to go? does he at least tell you where he's going? if he does, just make a mental note, leave the 5yr old with the babysitter and go to where ever it is he says he's going. (if he's not there, you've still already caught him in a lie.) don't approach him right away, just sit back and be observant. you'll either find him hangin' with his friends (like he said) or out on "prowl" for chics. depending on which way it goes, will of course, depend on your reaction. i don't have high hopes on this one, but just "check" for yourself and see what you find.
2006-10-11 12:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u live together and he dosent take u out??? thats just wrong. U need to put ur foot down, what kind of $hit is that? Ur f*cken stupid for letting him do that. God this gets me so f*cken mad why do girls have to be so stupid all the time. Thas including my self ok. I dont know what more to say, just look what u have infront of u honey. He's not right for u.
2006-10-11 12:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are completely stupid! white women demand that they put a ring on the finger, food on the table and that they clean as well. Thats why 70% of blacks with children are single. Of course he is cheating on you! Look up the CDC std statistics that says 42% of blacks have genital herpes. Dont be stupid and move on. Why havent you married. Is it because you dont want to claim his income on welfare applications? Dont make your child a bastard any longer and marry someone! ----as for the single whites with children...they are either gay or wanting welfare benefits.
2006-10-11 12:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's out until 4 AM without you - honey - he is NOT your BF. Kick him to the curb. My man would NEVER go out without me, regardless of the situation. That's how a man who loves a women behaves. Your "BF" is using you and you should dump him the second you finish reading this answer.
2006-10-11 12:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and what is his reason for not allowing you to go with him? trust me, if i were you and you have a sitter and he wont let you go with him, then gather up a few friends and go out with them.and if he has a problem with that, then its time to kick him to the curb. because he don't trust you! have you ever heard of the old saying whats good for the goose????
2006-10-11 12:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's hiding something it might do you some
good to do a little spying.Because chances are if he is hiding
somthing,especially if he's cheating he's not going to tell you.
Let me know what happens.
Good Luck!!!!!!!
Rebekah Sledge.
2006-10-11 12:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Rebekah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sniff,,,,,Sniff, sniff sniff....
Smells like he's cheating to me!
He's had four years to be out late @ night, no supervision, setting himself up as a playa, while you're home with the kid?
Oh boy is he cheating.
2006-10-11 12:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋