If so I would love to talk to ya.
2006-10-11 11:51:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know of one male, who is real geeky, and he is attracted to females almost exclusively on their intelligence. When he was in high school he had a hard time with it. Now that he's in college, he's in heaven in the math department. He can't believe how many great gals there are! His current crush is girl from China that got AP credit all the way to multivariant calculus.
2006-10-11 11:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme ask ya a question....
When ya see a guy, don't you notice looks, posture, clothes, car FIRST? Then you see that there's a gleam of intelligence in the eye, a smile, something that makes the guy go from eye candy to someone to find out about.
Now from the other side....
Ever "meet" someone on the 'net, or over the phone, and realize that they're funny, intelligent, and spark your curiosity? Then meet them in the real world and find that the intelligent, funny, fascinating person you spoke with on the phone holds utterly no physical interest for you?
Of course, real people are interested in the "inner you", but the outer you is important too. For a successful relationship, you need both mental and physical attraction.
Too much physical, it's just lust (which can be fun in the short term, but ghastly in the long term)
Too much mental, and you've got "just one of your guy friends" which is a good way to rip the liver out of a guy who wants to be more.
2006-10-11 12:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but only if the outside package is worth the look. Make no mistake about it, men are quite assertive with what they want and always say what's in their minds. No guy likes the fat chic. For the relationship to last, though, the intellectual connection must be made. Your outside look says much about your inside. If you are busy achieving goals in life, chances are that your physical appearance will show it. If you are a couch potato, it is very likely that you will end up with some underachiever just like yourself.
Perhaps this may not be what you expected to read, but it is the honest truth.
Mr. M on "personality."
2006-10-11 11:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sure but there are limitations here you cant be a nice girl and look like that troll that lives under the bridge at the end of my driveway or you cant be hott like the sun and have the brain of a slug you see the perfect girl don't exist it is just a myth so if you have got a real good smart girl that is not a super model it is better than a super model who cant string words together to make a sentence and is out every night choking down some other guys kok maybe you can hit me up with a im
2006-10-11 11:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience most guys are not interested in anything but appearence. It is really bad and I am often disgusted by it but it is the truth. Some however are interested in personality, this usually comes with maturity (not nessecarily age). Good luck. Oh and if your wondering I care a lot more about personality than appearence, so there are some out there.
2006-10-11 12:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by Blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's happened before; say what you will, but we are genetically predisposed to be assholes in that scenario. Look at it like this: if you're just out to get laid, the choice is obvious, and if you're settling down, the choice is again obvious. True love is harder to find than sex, so just be patient. If it makes you feel any better, I ignore girls with good personalities too, since I'm a dirty, freedom-loving beatnik.
2006-10-11 12:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by kickapookidonthefritz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of? Honestly no, but I've know a number of very physically attractive females who have ZERO personality which makes them just as unappealing. There are certain physical attributes that we can't control or change but I've always found that a persons pride or lack of pride are directly correlated to how they manage their physical appearance. I'm much happier with a plain Jane who takes care of herself and has personality.
2006-10-11 11:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Love and life is built on personality. Without that there is no relation. It is not true only in case of one night standers, if u decide so. It applies to men also as well.
2006-10-11 12:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by piston 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they become more interested in the girl's personality once they grow up.
2006-10-11 11:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a million things that make a woman beautiful and whats on the inside is definitely one (a very big one) of them.
2006-10-11 11:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by deno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋