If you do, get over it. God gave people eyes to "see". Every person is an "individual" and reacts to outside stimuli in different ways. Many people are highly sensitive to a person's stare and it shouldn't be. Many people are so bothered by staring that they began to "misinterpret" eye contact as being a "flag" for danger or intimidation. Many people are "judged" wrongly based on eye contact alone. Emotions are "amplified" through the eyes and this has to be noted. Even still , unless actions or words validate what is "annouced" by the eyes, no one should be judged pre-maturely and falsely. Emotions and actions are two very different things. People must learn to "react" to actions and not to emotions. Actions validate emotions . "Feelings" or "vibes" must not be employed to judge an invidual before he or she "acts out". "Do not judge a book by its cover", is very true here. Many wars and conflicts have been sparked over misinterpreted "outer expressions". To know others is to know self
2006-10-11 11:37:48 · 8 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Just very uncomfortable
2006-10-11 11:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by corkers3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right and wrong.
See nobody should be threatened or anything else by an eye to eye stare. However if somebody you were not attracted to in any way was staring at a part of your body wouldn't you get offended.
before I go on with my example I want to point out I have nothing against gays, it's just easier to prove my point this way.
If you are a straight male; wouldn't it offend you if another guy was staring at a certain part of your body?
2006-10-11 18:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by darksphyx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get real jittery and feel that my person is threaten . I stare back and if that don't work I follow the person home stand on their lawn until the police come and ask me to leave.
The word generally gets around that I don;t like being stared at!
2006-10-12 10:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Again, this is evolution. In the animal kingdom, staring IS a threat and a challenge to the dominant male. So, we can all blame the males for this one.
2006-10-11 18:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by AuroraDawn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you asked a question & then answered it for the way you think. Staring is rude.
2006-10-11 18:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but this is basic animal threat/dominance behaviour. your point?
2006-10-11 18:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by prometheus_unbound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why, has someone reported you for sexual harrassment for staring?
2006-10-11 18:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by meg *__* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,I did not consider it.
2006-10-11 18:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋