i really like this girl who is on the volleyball team and i have been recently been talking to her a lot. However, Im not too sure if she is interested in me...i 've been going to a lot of her games and i think she and her friends have been noticing me at the games and one day i decided to tell her that i think she is really cute and that i would like to hang out with her sometime on the weekend. she said awww and i think she liked it.... but she said that she was busy with vball that weekend. after one of her games i congratulated her and she kissed me on the cheek. Ive been asking her friends and she is sort of a shy girl so i dunno if she is worth it to keep asking her out, however I really like her and I don't know what to do?? , how should i do it? she broke up with a guy who was an asshole a few months before....maybe this has something to do with it??? how can i ask her out again without annoying her?
2006-10-11 11:34:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't keep blatantly asking her out like that, she might end up feeling pressured.
Casually mentioned doing something together like going to the cinema or just hanging out but don't so much stress the terms of whether its as friends or g/f and b/f. This way its a bit more casual and you are able to clearly asses her feelings for you.
2006-10-11 11:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she busy with volleyball that weekend? Sometimes girls tell the truth. She kissed you on the cheek and is a "shy girl"?
Either she's telling them something, but I go with the non verbal... She KISSED you on the cheek... Do you need her to say over the loudspeakers at the next volleyball game??? "I WANT YOU TO ASK ME OUT!!!"
Keep being supportive of her and tell team on the next victory, "Hey, why don't we celebrate? Who is up for a soda? milkshake? coffee?"
That way she's comfortable and who knows... The girls may take the cue and let her show up with you ALONE to get to know one another.
I think she likes you and is trying to encourage you. Kisses to me at the very least showed SOME interest in you. She's not going to ask you out to the parking lot and start passionate foreplay. She DEFINITELY is not going to say things like, "I would love to go out with you in front of her friends and suffer from their taunts..." "Wooo, Janie's got a boyfriend...."
You've got the right idea by showing interest in things she's interested in. The point is to continue striving towards the goal of getting her to go out with you.
2006-10-11 11:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i'm an equal opportunist myself. I think most asian men are unsure when it comes to asking out other races. My asian male friends are mostly timid when it comes to asking another race out just due to the unsureness that they have about the woman saying yes to dating an asian man. Also rejection plays a big role (but that's in every scenario). I personally think if you click with someone it doesn't matter what race they are. But I find it hard to find a Indian woman that will date outside their race. I think Indian women are gorgeous. As for asian girls dating white guys, my asian girl friends say that it's something different and they don't want to be with asian guys because they see them as being like their father. Old school asian fathers are usually unattached, unemotional, and lack in affection/intimacy towards their family. While white men provide that. But they agree that obviously times have changed and asian men now a days are much more loving & emotional than their fathers or fathers fathers.
2016-03-28 05:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe you sound really sweet..this girl seems lucky for someone to care about her..and just cause she said she was busy that weekend with vball dont mean she is busy the next weekend..i think you should just give it time though cause she prob has things on her mind about her ex bf...but if you want to ask her out again..she seems pretty interested so maybe after shes done vollyball ask her when she is free...good luck
2006-10-11 11:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up ... she gave you a kiss on cheek! maybe she is one that plays a little hard to get. Ask her one time after a game if she wants to go get pizza or something and get all yalls friends together and go.
2006-10-11 11:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any girl thinks its really sweet if you ask them out, unless your a loser but if she's already kissed you on the cheek then i think you should just go for it, ask her friends when's the next time that you dont have plans, and girls think its cute if you are consistant, but dont get to consistant, and dont be clingy!!!!! that shows that you dont have a social life.
2006-10-11 11:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Pauline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is so shy, maybe inviting her out with another couple and yourself might be the answer to break the ice with her.
2006-10-11 11:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Margie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up some time and say hey me and so and so are going to See a movie would you like to go with us that way it don't seem like a date and when it is over see if she wants to hang with you
2006-10-11 11:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should have a serious talk with her and tell her how much you like her but if she's not into you then she'll probably let you know.
2006-10-11 11:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Cynroddddddd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest & tell her your interested in her...also you might want to let her know that you can take it slow & build a friendship ..then see where that takes you both!! worked for me!!
2006-10-11 11:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by pinkcat2be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋