I was in school with my friend, we where talking about boys, then she told me that her brother asked her things about me because he likes me, and that he wants to meet me, but then she laughed and told me that he must masturbate thinking about me because he thinks I am hot too, and that made me MAD, the pervert!!!
I saw him in the lunch line, walked to him and asked him, he said nothing just blushed, that was a yes to me so I kicked him in the balls, he made this surprised face then slowly doubled over to his knees and then fell to the side and turned pale. All the girls cheered and laughed at him, the boys just stared. I bet he will not do it again, serves him right.
The next day she told me that he needed to go to the ER that night, and that he is taking some pills. Oh well, that’s not my problem, he had that coming.
Now when his friends look at me they seemed to be angry, what the hell is wrong with them, maybe they need a good kick too?
2006-10-11 11:29:42 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
It's your friend's fault. It's not like he was talking about you to other people besides his sister whom he trusts. I understand her loyalty to you but it shouldn't come before her loyalty to her brother. In the end she hurt you both.
2006-10-13 12:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by ←Betty B→ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you physically assaulted that boy in a completely unprovoked attack and if he were my son I would have you charged with assault.
He was certainly not using you sexually, if anything he may have been using his imagination, and it is a free country you know! His thoughts are his own and you should mind your own business. His sister said that he liked you, you can bet he doesn't like you now!!
You had no right to walk up to someone and attack them, what is wrong with you? All he did is blush when you spoke to him, which was not a crime the last time I checked - on the other hand, what you did IS a crime!
Get some help, because at the moment your temper is controlling you, instead of you controlling your temper! You are a nasty young woman who needs help.
You should also apologize for you vicious behaviour but I hope your Principal expels you from school.
2006-10-13 13:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i hope this doesnt sound too harsh, but i definately think you are way overreacting. the "lunch line" comment gives me the clue that you are obviously in school, but i dont think youre in high school yet.
anyways, boys, ESPECIALLY at that age (though it doesnt ever really stop) are prone to masturbating frequently. it's nature.
i think you should try and not take it so personally. maybe even try and take it as a compliment? (maybe at your age that concept is inconceivable?)
i would stop going around school threatening to kick all the boys in the balls just for being normal, healthy, horny boys. that's just how they are.
i can totally understand feeling irritated or uncomfortable about this issue on your part, but you seem to be almost RAGE-FUL about it. i wonder why?
2006-10-15 23:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by depressed, newly single mom of 2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I'm sorry to say that you were wrong for doing that to him. He did not touch you sexually, you would not have even known about it unless your friend had told you. Boys think about that kinda thing ALL the time and it doesn't stop. So I think you should apologize to the poor guy you sent him to the freakin' ER, if I was this guys sister I wouldn't want to be your friend anymore.
2006-10-19 10:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by Renee V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I misread. Your friend said he must masturbate thinking about you because he thinks you are hot, your friend did not say my brother said he thinks about you while masturbating. Your friend is the one who made the sexually joke about you. Her brother never actually said that, she made a joke about him thinking you are hot. And someone should kick you in the teeth for kicking that poor guy in his balls. You are a little *****. And if I was your friend I wouldn't be anymore. Just because someone thinks you are hot, doesn't mean they are masturbating to thoughts of you or that they even want to have sex with you. I think Angelina Jolie is one of the hottest female actress, but you don't see me trying to have sex with her....you are an idiot.
2006-10-16 06:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by fin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You idiot. You deserve to have his friends angry at you and you really need to grow up! How old are you, b****? You need to see that everything is not about you and that just because some guy was masturbating over you doesn't give you the right to hurt him like that! And then you come in here, expecting us to identify with and pity you! He wasn't using you! He wasn't even doing anything to you! GROW UP! You can't go through life hurting people over stupid things like that! You do realize that charges could be presses against you for that and you may have completely screwed up his reproductive system in a stupid, petty, immature, act of childish vengeance!?!?!?!? Grow up and stop being so self-centered!
2006-10-11 11:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I think you showed great immaturity in what you did and will be lucky if the boy doesn't file assault charges on you. You had no proof that he did anything but think you were hot, I guess he has probably changed his mind about that. I think his sister is just as mean as you are to say something like that about her brother and she didn't say he did it she just bet he did. You need to grow up and so does his sister.
2006-10-18 05:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by lovepat5808 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You overreacted to something you only suspected but didn't know as fact. You should have just ignored it. I believe you have a problem with anger that you need to deal with before it gets out of hand again. They guys friends are justified in being angry with you because you were irrational and cruel.
Your question indicates you think he was using you sexually. He was not. He had not touched you; therefore, he could not have used you. If anything, you owe him an apology.
2006-10-11 12:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Curious George 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
GIRLS MUSTURBATE TOO, AND THEY THINK ABOUT WHAT WHEN THEY MASTURBATE?(Why no one said this so far?)
Was he ugly?
He have the right to masturbate thinking about what he chooses, it is not wrong, and it is not illegal.
He was not using violence on you.
If he was hitting you, you could use only the necessary violence to escape(self-defense). You can only kick a boy in the balls if he is trying to rape you or kill you, only extreme cases of self-defense, why? because is something very serious both physically and emotionally, you did permanent damage to a very important and private area.
What you did was very wrong and illegal!!!
2006-10-11 13:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Something was seriously wrong with you,how do you not kow that your friend could be making this up.Did she not bother to help her brother,both of yall need yall a** whooped that's unfair to him and his parents and if I were you I would show up to the hospital and tell the boys parents that the sister is the cause of all this.VERY BOGUS MOVE!
2006-10-11 12:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh you are sooooooo cool you sent a boy to the emergency room for something there is no prooven fact to. If it was my son you did that and sent him to the ER bet your @$$ Id be comming after you and your momma depending on the mood I was in Id eighther press charges on you for Assult or Id take my chances and whip the sh*t out of you and your momma!!!!
2006-10-13 07:36:37 · answer #11 · answered by Christina B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋