theres this girl in my class,we sit next to each other and we're always flirting and everything.she writes on my arm,she touches my hand and i touch hers.i give her compliments once in a while about what she's wearing and all that.i know she likes me because she's the one that started talking to me and telling me to go sit with her.we say hi to each other in the hall and hug sometimes.
well,yesterday i told her to meet me after class and that i needed to to her something.so after a while of letting her think of what i was gonna say i asked her if she had a boyfriend,and she sais"yeah,kinda"so i was like "well i dont see him you or anything"(i knew she wasn't talking about me),so she said"well he kinda goes to another school, and i see him every week-end".then she kinda got the idea that i was asking her out.so she said"i need to get to know u alittle more,just give me time to know u more."then she said"we could be best friends" so i said ok and gave her a hug and good bye"help me......
2006-10-11 11:21:40 · 7 answers · asked by ◄ZΨΦИ► 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yesterday tuesady and today she didnt come to shcool.i asked her monday.she didn't come to school,maybe it was because of that that happened yesterday or i dont know,i really like this girl and i know i should'nt be all sad in front of her or nothing,show like i dont care if she rejected me.i told her yesterday to break up with that guy because she wouldnt even see him that much or nothing,besides she told me that he asked her and she just said"sure" without thinking about it,so i think she does like me but she's just being loyal to that other guy.also should i act as if i dont care about her rejection or should i talk to her about how i feel?.i think i shouldnt show that i care that much about it.well still,i would apreciate anyone's help.thx.
2006-10-11 11:22:35 · update #1
today(wednesday) she didnt come.i wonder if shes thinking about it or what?
2006-10-11 11:23:41 · update #2
sometimes being best friends is better than having her as a girlfriend. you can be closer and talk about stuff. try to be a really good friend and hang out with her and then maybe she will finally realize she likes you. be pacient!!
2006-10-11 11:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by saveitforthemoshpit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can see from what you've said in your question that she must like you.
I myself have been in that situation before and its rough. It's not the easiest thing trying to convince someone to leave there current significant other not matter how much they say that person means to them, even if you could make a much better boyfriend for her. She's obviousely with this guy for a reason, whether it be something that is worth keeping him in your eyes or not so the best thing that you can do right now is to be yourself and try to sustain a friendly relationship with her.
The longer the two of you are friend the better she will get to know you and get closer to you. I was dating another guy while I was friends with my current boyfriend, and though my bf now was a great friend to me at the time I was so infatuated with my not-so-great boyfriend that I didn't even take the time to see my options around me. But he stuck through it and now we've been dating for 3 months and our relationship is great!
If you really care for this girl then try to be supportive of her and don't push her to make choices that she's not ready to make. She obviousely like's you to some extent and it might just be a matter of time and warming up to you a bit more. If anything you sound like a very nice guy and I'm sure you'll find a great gf in due time. I hope I have helped!
Good luck!
2006-10-11 19:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sir are in the Friend Zone. You're not THE GUY... To get out of the Friend Zone and be the guy is next to impossible...
Sorry to be the one to break the news to you.
2006-10-11 18:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a hint...keep your questions shorter.
2006-10-11 18:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by NOIZE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that was a lot to read
2006-10-11 18:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by i luv u so much 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus....you wrote a novel. ask her out
2006-10-11 18:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to be friends for now.......she's got a bf now.......
2006-10-11 18:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋