There is a senoir that is 2 years older then me that i totally love. My friends hang out with him (as well as me) and he just broke up with one of them but he has ALWAYS been very sweet to me, like saying he loves the shirt that i was wearing (that i made myself) and he waves to me when we see each other outside of school, and hes very calm and nice. How do i get him to reallllly fall for me? Any tips on these type of guys: quiet, sweet, pushed around, but very cute, noticable, and punkish.
I will choose best answer after 12 hours MAX. :)
2006-10-11 11:03:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's already noticed you which is a good thing. If he's very shy then maybe you need to make the first move. As you already hang out with him then it shouldn't be too hard to ask him to help you to 'set up your computor' or 'give you a lift somewhere' or something that will get you on your own with him. Then you can tell him what a nice guy he is for being there for you. Every man loves praise and let him take it from there
2006-10-11 11:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need him to tell you via a bull horn that he likes you?
I'd say if you take special interest in his activities. Does he play football? Go to his games. Punkish... What kind of music does he listen to? Ask him to download a CD of some of his favorite songs.
Guys loved to be encouraged. Generally, their moms try to discourage. You fill in a big gap when you encourage.
Take an interest in his interests, share some of your interests. If he gets involved or is supportive of your interests. He's trying to support you as well. The rest is up to you!!!
2006-10-11 18:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sweet and maybe ask him to go to the movies. Hang out with him more. You need to let him know who you are so he learns more about you. Maybe he will like who you are if he finds out more about you.
Most importantly be yourself. You don't want to pretend that you are somebody else. He needs to like you for who you are and not somebody you pretended to be. If you pretend to be someone else then you are going to have to be that person every time he is around and if he finds out you just broke is trust and his friendship. Be careful with your decision. Follow your heart because it knows best! If he doesn't feel the way you feel about him then he is not the one for you. Move on. There are plenty others.
2006-10-11 18:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by lynx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Happy Birthday.
Well tips wise I would suggest that you two try and spend more time with each other. Don't try to change yourself for him. If he likes you for you then thats awesome and I wish you guys the best of luck.
But mainly I would say just be real.. guys HATE fake girls. Be yourself and you will shine.
:)
Good Luck
lAtA
2006-10-11 18:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it
you're young and in love, but don't be heartbroken if he says no. stay as friends if you can't get closer and don't worry you'll have many more chances there's still more than half the school year left. besides, someone you might like better may come along
but again, Go for it
2006-10-11 18:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by ng_bigsis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, be very nice to him, do all the things he does to you wave hi give him complements and smile a LOT to him and be a little funny i really hope this will help
2006-10-11 18:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by pink bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to manipulate him into getting into a relationship with you. If you want him, then walk up to him and tell him. Be a woman about yours. Tell him the truth. Tell him your feelings. Then sit back and let things go from there.
2006-10-11 18:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy bday huni, tell him how u feel. if he shrugs u off without even finkin bout it then there aint no point worryin bout him, if he has to fink about it, then blow u off, at least he thought there might b summink there, dnt break up bein friends tho. there is no need to waste a good friendship, n hu knows, mayb in a few years, if not now?
2006-10-11 18:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he ever makes fun of you in a joking way, just be all cute and deny it. Also call him on regula occasions. Don't call every night but call every 3rd night. You can also make him one of your shirts, That would be really cute and I'm sure he would love it.
2006-10-11 18:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't even realize that you like him. If he's shy like you say, he wouldn't even suspect that he could get a girl like you. You need to let him know that you like him and go for it girlfriend!
Happy Birthday!!!
2006-10-11 18:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by Silly ol Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋