Hi, thanks for takin the time to look at this posting....im a male in my 20s..back into the dating world....i need to know what things NOT to do on the first couple of dates......and what NOT to say.....and how should i go about talking on the phone with te girl?.....should i talk alot....or a lil?......and what things should I DO on a date that will help? thank you!
2006-10-11 10:44:06 · 9 answers · asked by chill7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT TALK ABOUT OTHER WOMEN.
DO ask her questions about stuff you know she is interested in.
listen and on the next date you will have more to talk about and elaborate on. she will be impressed that you showed interest in something she likes.
DO have manners. chivalry is everything. be a gentleman.
DO NOT TALK ABOUT OTHER WOMEN.
if she asks, be vague and polite. DO NOT bad mouth an ex.
2006-10-11 10:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by deathwishpussy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, but if your a jerk you may need to brush up on some things. Ask questions about her, hobbies, friends and family. Show some interest. Make eye contact, don't be checking out the cute waitress serving you. Stay away from sex talk, she might think your only after that. Do not talk about ex-girlfriends, that sucks. Open a door, do not belch after your beer and don't forget to tell her how nice she looks. If your comfortable with each other, things should fall into place quite nicely. Hope you have fun.
2006-10-11 17:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by mkathy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try your BEST to be gentlemanly, like when going out, OPEN the door for her.
Don't pressure her, let her be the one who start physical things.
On the phone that depends on subjects = GO W/the flow! You might ask some of what are her "favorite things" to bring up if to much silence and you will learn more from listening...
Speak from the HEART....
2006-10-11 17:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by ***BEEN THERE, DONE THAT!!!*** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk about your ex-girlfriends and why you broke up with them. Don't whine about all of your problems. Don't brag about your financial or material succes. Do talk about the positive things about yourself and invite your date to do the same. Just relax, enjoy the atmosphere and get to know one another.
2006-10-11 17:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get into a hurry and try to rush things. Take it slow unless she's ready to skip some steps. No sex till marriage either.. if she dumps you for that, she's a garden tool.
2006-10-11 17:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by jackalope_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fart, burp loudly, vomit, spit when you talk, leave a pee stain on your pants when you go to the bathroom, talk about only what you like, don't ask her for a BJ/HJ/VS or AS, don't talk about your ex, and oh yeah, don't talk about religion!
2006-10-11 17:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not kiss a girl, ask can u come over to her house, or ask when are yall gone get busy
2006-10-11 19:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by babysavage09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things NOT to do:
- no presents
- no flowers
- no candy
- no flirting with other girls
- no flirting with other guys
- no burping
- no farting
- no tonsilectomy unless I initiate it
- no looking down my top
- no asking if you can come up
- no telling me you love me
- no telling me about your ex
- no telling me about your mother
- no telling me about your problems
2006-10-11 17:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by .... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no sex and do not try io impress her at all just be yourself nothing more good luck
2006-10-11 17:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by sportlvr45 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋