since chilødhood i have a complex that i m ugly. no one has ever told me that and even ppl say my looks are above average but still i feel ugly and hate it when someone takes my photo during any occasion.why so? i need advice!!!!!!!!
2006-10-11 10:29:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you think you are ugly? HA. Wait till you see my face, it'll give u nightmares. Trust me theres is no such thing is ugly or beautiful. Every one is samething, people just think they are attracted to eachothers. Sorry for my spellings.
2006-10-11 10:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This world has its own idea of beauty...U see it in the magazines and on Tv. Its everywhere! So there is so much pressure to look like like that, we even have negative thoughts to ourselves because we dont.
I had this problem too. Everyone always told me that I was ugly since I can remember. (And trust me I'm not ugly) I heard this so much that I eventually started tellin myself that. And I hated myself. Its funny how things work, because someone can say something negative about u and for the rest of your life it plays back in your head. Stop telling yourself that youre ugly and stop being your own worst enemy. Because youre not ugly.
2006-10-11 19:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Indian beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere in your childhood you probably had an experience that left a stain in your heart and in your mind.
In order to stop this, you must start with your thinking.
Think good thoughts about your self.
Start looking in the mirror each day, and tell yourself your are beautiful.
When you do something good, or complete a task, reward yourself, buy yourself something special, or give yourself flowers.
Start loving you, and appreciating you by counting your blessing, if you have 2 arms, legs, hands, feet, eyes, and do not have any serious skin conditons from being burned or scarred.
You have a lot to be thankful for, stop having a pity party, and enjoy your life, you have a lot to live for, and appreciate!
2006-10-11 20:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question to answer because there could be multiple reasons why you feel this way. A good thing to do would be to go to counseling so you and the doctor can analyze the problem, figure out exactly why you feel this way, and make some changes. I don't know if you exercise or not, but if you don't it could dramatically effect the way you feel about yourself. Another possibility could be a memory that makes you feel this way. You could also be a person who likes to hear someone tell them that they look handsome/beautiful. So try to figure out what makes you feel this way and fix it and like I said above counseling is the best way to do that. :)
2006-10-11 17:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to accept it as a "complex" and let it go,
most people go thru this at a younger age and teens, and all grow out of it.
Be patient, and replace the negative thoughts with positive ones.
It really does work. Tell yourself each day what beautiful eyes you have, nose etc.
work on it - - good luck
2006-10-11 17:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a similar experience. I remember looking into the mirror at age 5 and thinking how ugly I was. I actually won a beauty contest at one point. Think really hard. I believe it was a verbal abuser in my family who constantly made me feel unworthy-which caused the problem. I think you will be surprised how things impact you.
2006-10-11 19:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by catzrme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is amazing looking to someone, and each one of us has their own very different tastes. In general though, being attractive is simply about having symmetrical features, and confidence to some degree.
Saying that though, I hate the way I look as well and know where you're coming from.
2006-10-11 18:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
basicly your saying your self concious....hmmmm....I'd say just 2 take a good look in the mirror and see what you think.If u still think your ugly ask someone you trust...like your mom! You think your ugly cause you never pictured your self as a beautiful person. Maybe you never think about your self 2 much....So just ask your mom or do something new 2 your face!! Good luck......
2006-10-11 17:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by afi.girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, don't be so rough on yourself. In a society today, it's hard because there is a lot of pressure on how you look. What you need is counseling. I used to be really hard on myself, and still sort of am to a degree, but it's a lot better now that I have counseling. They give you a lot of tips to help you feel better about yourself.
2006-10-11 18:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know for a fact that you're not nearly as ugly as me. In fact, I'm so blumin' ugly I would make your worse nightmare seem like a pleasant dream.
2006-10-11 19:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your mom and dad never given you any complement.To me people are always pretty good looking on the out side.Why?Well,I say everybody has there own personality's.Me am fat but Am pretty in the face.To me if people don't like it .By all means don't look at it.Why again?I love it.Because I love myself.Plus If i don't somebody going to have to.Wright?
2006-10-11 22:41:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋