iv known my boyf for nearli 7months we'v been going out for a while but iv always said i was 15 when im actually 14. should i tell him or does it realli matter?
2006-10-11 10:24:32 · 31 answers · asked by sazidoll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes 16 btw
2006-10-12 08:21:19 · update #1
tell him the truth so that there can be trust between you in the future and hell start to trust after you tell him tell him the reason you are telling him the truth is because you love him and you wanted to tell him the truth and tell him you hope he'll forgive you for lieing you told him you were older because you thought he wouldnt go out with you if you were 14 so you lied hun this works all the time so try my addvise
2006-10-11 10:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him, you shouldnt have lied in the first place...if a guy doesnt like you for you...then why date him? He should love everything about you...because when you find a guy that does that is the most amazing feeling ever he knows everything about you your flaws and all and still loves you. But yes you need to tell him; he will either figure out and loose your trust or not and then what happens if you are together for a long time; what are you going to tell him...are you going to lie about your age forever...when you have your birthday party are you going to act like your turning 16. You should just tell him.....if he doesnt love you anymore then he never really loved you in the first place and you can do better...next time dont lie!!!
2006-10-11 10:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by blondebabyxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not really sure why these people that have answered you are asking you his age..No age does not matter in a relationship but you don't want to lie about it. It shouldn't matter if he is 10 or 30...you shouldn't lie to him...like someone else said, he may now not be able to trust you and if you don't have trust in a relationship you really don't have anything!
Hope you do the right thing!
2006-10-11 10:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by dancer81706 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it would depend on how much the age difference is? I myself would want the girl I was with to be honest with me and tell me that she is actually only 14. If he really likes you it wont matter, but he will probably want to know why you told him you were 15.
2006-10-11 10:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by ShaggyDude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him. Is this really such a big deal, since you are still a minor? Next time don't start a relationship with a lie. Matter of fact just stop with all lies. You will find your life will be much easier and better.
2006-10-11 10:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its bad to start a relationship with a lie. How old is he? You obviously thought it would matter to him if you were younger, so why the suddon change of heart? If everything is going great between you all, he probably wont care if your only 14. You should come clean, though.
2006-10-11 10:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're underage, regardless of whether you're 15 or 14, so legally it probably doesn't matter, but in terms of trust in a relationship I would say 'tell him'. If he breaks up with you or gets angry over something so small, he wasn't worth all the effort in the first place.
2006-10-11 10:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely matters. You shouldn't be lying about anything. Tell him as soon as possible. He'll find out when everyone wishes you a Happy Sweet Sixteen instead of a Happy Fifteenth Birthday.
2006-10-11 10:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see, half plus 7.
according to the equation, if you are 14, you should date somebody around 14.
If he is 20 , its ok if you are 17, not legal but everybody knows its ok anyway in most cases, the ages should be sort of close, thats the mian point
hey it works
2006-10-11 10:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. i found out as we talk that I could pay for my first semester of faculty out of pocket. 2. i'm unsure if i'll interrupt up with my boyfriend. 3. I nevertheless have not got here upon suited finished time employment yet.
2016-12-13 06:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by erke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋