I am not the kind of boy that is talkative. I am shy but my friends try to get me a hook up. Sometimes the says no or sometimes my friends never tell them. Help me out here!
2006-10-11 10:19:58 · 12 answers · asked by ernesto1196011 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you get out of being shy.... And, just be yourself.... I'm sure your'e cute and you probably blush when you smile. I'm also shy but, it took me a while to gain enough courage to introduce myself to people. Be yourself that all it takes. Bye.
2006-10-11 12:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no other way to get someone to go out with you than to ask them your self.
Women/girls don't like a second party doing the asking. They figure if a person can't ask for them self's, then he must be a loser. You not a loser, your just shy, I know how that is and feels. I've been there before. If you want to take a girl out, your just going to have to get out there and ask.
Sure you might get a refusal, but if you never ask you will never know or get any where.
Please don't let a refusal bother you, the "best" of us have had plenty of those. But we men just have to keep plugging along and one day we get an affirmative YES! and so will you. Then you will be asking us out here in Internet land, "What do I do now?" Smile.
2006-10-11 17:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but ur friends need 2 **** off them crowdin round u aint gonna get u a girl tell them u preciate what theyre tryin 2 do but that ull pick the girl u wanna ask ok? as 4 comin 2d askin part ull feel alot better after u ask her
TRUST ME ON THIS
2006-10-11 17:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're shy, it would be easier to write it in a note and slip it in your crushes locker, and in the note, explain to them that you like them and you were wondering if they liked you back and if so if they will go out with you. Hope this helps and good luck!
2006-10-11 17:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat, I used to have my friends talk to the girl I wanted to ask out and see what she thought of me. and then I got the curage to ask her out, it helped me a lot. Even if my friends just did say she said she liked me and did not even talk to her lol but it worked :)
2006-10-11 17:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by jbscooby99999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go balls to the wall Ask her and hope for the best and if she turns you down it is not the end of the world
2006-10-11 17:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by Arrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this book from the link and read and learn how to get girls, it's so easy.
"Just ask" they are all waiting for you to just ask, start with the best looking ones, they hardly ever get asked out.
2006-10-11 17:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you got to talk to some girls...and then im sure you have friends that are girls..if not become friends...your turn will come...eventually
2006-10-11 17:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u well you just wait until they r alone and ask them out
2006-10-11 17:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by hoperdoper22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it!!!! You got nothing to lose! Just ask her nicely, NOT in front of her friends and who knows what could happen!
2006-10-11 17:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋