I have trouble doing it because I'm so nervous!
2006-10-11 10:12:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My best friend was in that position, and I managed to work with both him and his future girlfriend as a mediator - telling the other what they were too afraid to say.
If you know you want to tell this guy how you feel, but simply don't have the courage to do it yourself, maybe you could find a friend to stand in the middle?
2006-10-11 10:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Pif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wanting a boyfriend. Seriously. Think of it in small chunks - you want to go to dinner with him, you want to go catch a movie with him, you want to watch your school's football game and make out in the car afterward, whatever. Don't get so hung up on making it a boyfriend-girlfriend thing.
The reason is simple: if you ask him to go do something with you and he says no, then it's nothing personal - either he's busy that night, or he isn't into whatever activity you suggested. If you ask him to be your boyfriend and he says no, you'll feel that he's rejecting you as a person, which can be devastating - especially if you're the shy nervous type.
So...go ask him out. On a date. Not on a relationship. And see where he goes from there - who knows, he may be calling you his girlfriend in front of his friends next week.
2006-10-11 10:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u know for shore they like u back then, u take them somewhere private and let them know that u feel the same way :). Let it be a place where u feel comfortable though. Its always a breath of fresh air when u know the other person likes u. It will be ok. We all get nervous, but it will be a good ending when u know they like u
2006-10-11 10:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Eric MD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just breath and try to get closer.whenever u have a chance let him know how u feel. If he really likes u he will respond. If nothing happens then move on. If u are to shy just try writting letters or calling on the phone it'll help u a little bit, but have in mind that somethings are better when told in person.
2006-10-11 10:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Tani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're very lucky if you like someone and you know they like you back. Try saying 'There's a good movie on at whatever time in whatever place - you want to come and see it with me?' or something else that suits your circumstances, and see how it goes! What have you got to lose?
2006-10-11 10:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they already like you then just ask them hey do you want to be more then friends chances are if they already like you they will tell you yes good luck to you
2006-10-11 10:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them OUT or send a note the guy is in your HANDS
2006-10-11 10:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Depressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur really nervous, i think u should get tlak to on msn..its the best way..and ask him out. good luck
2006-10-11 10:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by avant1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you wait to long he;ll get over you so do be nervous just ask him
2006-10-11 10:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you enough, he will ask you to be his girlfriend!
2006-10-11 10:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋