ladies help, guys help, how do i get a girlfriend if ur on a scale of 1-10 in popularness......i'm like a 6-7....how do i get a girlfriend
2006-10-11 10:09:08 · 24 answers · asked by Pretty Boy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aw, how cute. well, this is hard for all of us b/c we can't see you! not that looks matter, but...uh....they do. but they matter in your APPROACH, that's all. if you are in grade school, you are going to have to put on the charm. all of the 9s and 10s (what you call 9s and 10s) are pulling the ladies b/c of their looks, or athelete status. but trust me, most of those guys will be losers by your 10 year reunion :) be the sweet guy who offers to take them to lunch, or walks her to class, or carries her books, or opens the door. always be yourself, and keep up your appearance, and HYGIENE :)
most importantly, instead of being the guy who is trying to be picked, go and pick a girl who is in your same position. there are plenty of what kids may call (6s and 7s) out there, and you are probably overlooking them b/c all the 9s and 10s get the attention. a couple of 7s are ultimately happier than a couple of 10s, who have to deal with all the stress and peer pressure of popularity. go find you another 7 and be HAPPY! :) and an extra bonus is that after you do get in a relationship, all of the girls are going to see who great of a guy you are, then they will want you too :)
2006-10-11 10:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by sexy law chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well I will give you some do's and don'ts (first) do be real,don't be a fake and a liar girls want a guy who tell the truth(second) dont be shy get out there) But dont get too out there where you are a pervert girls want respect and there are hardly and good guys out there anymore well there is but not as much.lol (Third) Talk to girls,but think what you are going to say first b4 you say it.You dont want to make a fool of yourself .(4)Drop some Hints for the girl you like because most girls want the guys to Make The move first.And dress nice. And be nice and get a friend to help like a gal pal or something who Knows you might start liking your gal Pal.Dont worry you will get a Girlfriend soon enough.
2006-10-11 17:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it as "getting a girlfriend" we are not prizes to be won. Think of meeting the right girl and falling for her. If you two both have the same feelings for each other, nature will take it's course. If you just find a girl to be your girlfriend, you are not in a relationship for the right reasons.
2006-10-11 17:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one of the trickyest things you can do to try to be in a relationship and you just seem to find it hard...All you need to do is wait.. be Patienter Let the right girl come to you... don't try to find her because in the end your end up being disappointed and if you do find one it's more likely that if it doesn't turn out well because you didn't give it time...it's a hard thing to do But HEY it will be worth it when you do find the girl you like
2006-10-11 17:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by maria U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, buy the book from the link below and read, learn then apply what you have learned. It's very simple, it's not about the scale on looks always, it's all about the confidence you show to girls, which attracts them to you.
2006-10-11 17:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, um, about join a school sports team, club/afterschool activity, try a part-time job at movie theatre/clothing store/mall/restaurant. Also, have you and your friends all go out and have them bring all their lady friends and you will meet alot of people that way too.
Good luck and be yourself! :D
2006-10-11 17:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by ☼shine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be ur self don't try to impress cause most girl won't be impress anyway. if there is a girl u like let her know. treat her right and any thing u do to get her u have to continue doing to keep her.
2006-10-11 17:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Josangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask out Marissa P - she said she would be yours! Seriously though find someone you have something in common with and just ask her out - you can do it! Just go for it- you kinda already like someone - she might be just waiting for you to make a move.
2006-10-11 17:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get filthy rich! Jk. You have to get to know a girl that would be interrested in having a conversation. You should just be very nice and don't be a geek.
2006-10-11 17:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first pick a girl you like, and are comfortable with, then talk to her, compliment her, try to find things in common then get them digits.
after that its smoooooth sailing just dont get into arguments at first, cause that wil lead to a break p in the near future.
2006-10-11 17:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by mike k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋