Well....Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months and we havent kissed yet. We're only 13. I went to lean in to kiss him today and I just felt he didnt really want to so I just didnt. Lol. Should I talk to him about it or.......? Please Help Me With Good Advice!! No wise asses please!
2006-10-11 10:02:13 · 20 answers · asked by Sally 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweety just talk to him, it's odd that there is no kissage after 2 months.
2006-10-11 10:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just do it. Some boys needs a push and you may have to be the one to push. Let us stop with just a kiss though. Kissing has gotten young people in trouble so take your time and say in 5 to 6 years and several bopys and kisses later- then when Mr. Right comes along you can share something Very special with him. If its not your first time (sex)then it won't be special for either one of you.
2006-10-11 17:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey slow it down!!! I understand that at 13 all every girl wantys is their first kiss. I was the same way, I got it and the guy ended up being a total jerk! I would say that wait for him to make the first move because he may not be ready yet. Talking is ok to do. He may get all wierd and break up with you if you talk to him about it but that means that he isn't worth it and you probably would regret it if you do kiss and he is a jerk. Make sure he is ok and HE makes the first move.
2006-10-11 17:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be ready to kiss yet, or embarrassed that he doesn't know how. How does he react to holding hands? Maybe he's not ready for the whole boyfriend/girlfriend experience. Remember, boys mature, both physically and emotionally, slower than girls.
You could wait a couple of months till a romantic opportunity arrives and try again. Maybe he just needs more time.
2006-10-11 17:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're only thirteen - there's no rush! Why do you want to kiss him so badly? Is it because you really want to kiss him, or you feel you have to or that you should? Don't push him into doing anything he's not comfortable with - boys can feel shy and awkward and scared, too. Just keep hanging out with him and having fun, and the kissing will happen when it's meant to.
2006-10-11 17:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating for 2 months at your age? Let him make the first move to kiss you.
2006-10-11 17:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, dont worry so much, you'll look back on this when you are in high school or college and see just how silly it was to be so concerned that you felt the need to ask yahoo answers...
now with that said, because i have sympathy for the situation, either just move in to kiss him and/or bring it up in a casual conversation to see what his feelings are...for all you know, he is dying to kiss you and is too nervous because he doesnt know if you want to. good luck!
2006-10-11 17:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Natethegreat8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well if you have been with him for at least two Months then you should definetly kiss Him but, dont do it if it makes Him feel uncomfortable.Also if you have been with him with two months then you should feel comfortable to talk to him about it dont make it a big deal just tell him as if you werent to in to it because if he is uncomfortable about it and you make a big deal out of something like that then that might mess up your realtionship. I hope You get your KISS!!~
2006-10-11 17:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to give him time. When i was 13, well, yeah. i was kinda like that. He knows what you wanted to do, so let him make the first move next time. Trust me, my girlfriend did this to me, that was 3 years ago and we're still going out.
2006-10-11 17:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should just go for it, and than ask him if he liked it or not. if he didnt and that's not what you want than give it up with him and just be friends, dating for 2 month and havent kissed, he either is really shy or i dont know what alse. but try and see his reaction.
Good luck!
2006-10-11 17:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by Amineh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to know what he is interested in ... Also to let u know as u both are 13 ... You both are still young and both mature a bit later then girls so give him some time enjoy playing with him ... Im sure once he is matured he will do the needful for you... All the best babe...
2006-10-11 17:05:56 · answer #11 · answered by Rohit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋