lately I noticed that one guy is paying too much attention to me... he is being really sweet... in a party we had yesterday he made sure all the time that I had a glass of drink (which he served me himself) and when I finished he took it and refilled and all the time stood next to me smilling and staring at me... now, you will ask what's the problem, right????
So: first, the guy is not a 100% O.k in his brains... you can see it in the way he looks and talks. second, his family is really wierd and I really don't wan't to get close to them, and anyway, I rally don't like that guy but I don't want to hurt his feelings... what should I do???
2006-10-11 09:56:53 · 13 answers · asked by yafit k 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he looks like a stalker, a secret admirer or a potential rapist. I think you should try to get away from him. Do no ever be afraid to hurt a guys feelings. Unlike females, a guy can get over it pretty easily especially when you're not even his gf yet. Everybody gets dumped in their lifetime so it's no big deal. Just go to him and tell you straight up that he shouldn't do all these nice stuff for you. There is so such thing as a really nice guy. Dont get me wrong, there's nice guys out there but if he's too nice to you, he want something. Yes that's right, he wants you! So if you dont want your life to be ruined, get rid of this guy and better yet, find yourself a bf so he can get rid of him for you. Or maybe i can protend to be your bf and get rid of him for you LOL jk. But yea, just be strong and be careful.
2006-10-11 10:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by epicwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about body language. You might cross your arms when he talks to you, not make eye contact. Go to different parties. If he wants to serve you a drink, say you are not thirsty or don't finish your first one. Or, if he mentions he is interested or asks you out, just say no thanks. Whenever a guy asks a girl out he knows there is a possibility for rejection. I am sure her will get over it. You might hurt his feelings, but at least you will be staying true to yourself. Besides, if you string him along, that is a million times worse then saying no thanks at the outset.
2006-10-11 10:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by R_H_P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I understand what you're trying to do, if you're not interested you need to get that across to him- first try to ignore him, then whenever he tries to do something for you- tell him that you will do it yourself..if that doesn't work then you'll just have to say..." I mean this in a nice way, but I'm just not interested in you -sorry"...sometimes guys think if they keep on trying they will win you over(true if you like them too) that's why you have to show him you're not interested..so he will stop & try with someone who is interested..You can't blame the guy for liking you -but he needs to learn that rejection is all part of the game of love...sorry but he might get his heart broken...but you have to be true to your feelings....right?...good luck to you..bye bye
2006-10-11 10:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a girl (women) you have a God given gift to reject men! Just start ignoring him, talk to him about other guys, you know how to do it, if he doesn't get the hint, you can always tell him the dreaded I just want to be friends, line. It's a natural talent for most women, use it
2006-10-11 10:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, by not saying anything, you're leading him on. and that will hurt him more in the long run. explain to him how you feel. say you are not interested in a relationship right now, but you would still like to be friends (well if you dont, then dont say that)
2006-10-11 09:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by horsegal92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See if one of your guy friends will pose as your boyfriend for a while so you can tell this person to leave you alone (on the grounds that it makes your "boyfriend" angry).
2006-10-11 10:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitly agree, just give him the 'i just wanna be friends' line, or else 'we need to talk' but make sure you aren't alone w/him when you say it. Id watch out
2006-10-11 10:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't return flirty gestures and if it keeps going on like this or worse tell him you only see him as a friend
2006-10-11 10:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by wendydahhling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is: What's wrong with YOU? Why would you let this guy get your drink? Can we say "DATE RAPE?" He sounds very creepy and you should stay away from him...and get your own drinks!
2006-10-11 10:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by BJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋