me and my boy friend have been 2 years together ,we really are in love but the problem is he dont give me a chance 2 talk when we r fightening so every day we have a fight i love him but i have to leave him coz he is making me sick ,i need you 2 give me steps i can put in my mind to have fun and not think of him ..thank you very much
2006-10-11 09:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well hun i am having the same problem right now and going through the same thing. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years and him and i fight all the time. It doesnt help matters any the he lives 351 miles away from me and all we are able to do is talk on the phone. We fight all the time over the stupidest things and it really begins to get so old and tiresome. As of just last night we broke up and i am really down and out right now. I understand how you feel and i just want you to know that you are not alone out there and i feel your pain. I dont know if that makes any difference to you but it always helps me to know that im not the only one out here going through these things. But i am having the same problem with dealing with it. I have just been trying to keep myself busy and hang out with people that mean the most to me. I have also been trying to catch up with friends that i have lost touch with over the past 2 years and just wrap my heart around all of the things that mean the most to me. There is no band aid big enough to mend a broken heart but we can just pick ourselves up and try again. I wish you the best of luck with everything and i hope that you make it through. I know you will and remember your happpiness is worth more than anything and make sure you know that before getting into another relationship with any one else. I will be praying for you!
2006-10-11 10:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by LAshlea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From being in your exact same position. Im telling you there are no steps really. All I did after me and my ex fiance broke up was keep myself busy. Yes, I cried and cried and got all depressed and didn't want to get out of bed but life does go on, if I wouldnt have broken up with my ex and moved on then I would have missed out on the best person in my life. The guy Im with now and the thing is I wasnt even looking. Just take it day by day, your mind will think of what he's doing and where he's at but it'll smooth over just give it a little bit of time. Good Luck!
2006-10-11 16:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by jaide1108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know when two people fight all the time it's suppose to show how much passion they feel for each other, but you need to go out with your friends and have fun, or find new hobbies, just something different that takes your attention away from him, you dont need to be weighted down by the constant fighting. Good Luck lol.
2006-10-11 16:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you leave him, make sure it is the right decision, its what you want to do. The fact that you want to put him out of your mind means you still love him, if you wanted to get rid of him that much, you wouldn't want to even see him. So think real hard and if you decide that you want to forget him, go out with your mates get drunk but not to much, flirt about get loads of numbers and pick the best of the lot. Good luck
2006-10-11 17:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by greekmanuk81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fighting isn't worth it MOVE ON!!!there's plenty of fish in the sea
2006-10-11 16:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by (....^^^^^^.....^^^^...) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋