I have 2 beautiful kids, they are ages 5 and 1... After I had my 1st child I weighed 215lbs.
I now weigh 115lbs, and I also exclusively breastfed both of my kids for over one year.
Between the weight loss and the breastfeeding, my body is in deplorable condition. I am 21 years old...
It's not that I want to look good for others, but I want to be happy when I am naked before I get in the shower and catch a glimpse of myself or when I put on a swimsuit at the beach...
My bf thinks I want my excess skin removed so that I can be sexy for other men..
How do I explain to him in a way he can understand, that I did all the work of losing over 100 lbs, and I just want to get rid of unsightly loose skin?
And b4 you say he is okay with it, I want you to know that he has called me "The Elephant Man" and "Freddy Krueger."
2006-10-11 09:50:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No hon, they are our kids...
2006-10-11 09:53:40 · update #1
Cosmetic surgery is very safe nowadays. My cousin got her breast reduction, tummy tuck and facelift surgery in India by the company called Forerunners Healthcare .The Price for the surgery she paid in India was very less. She paid 30% of the cost she was quoted in America.
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Hope this helps.
2006-10-11 18:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want my wife to get non-reconstructive cosmetic surgery either, and I'd hope she'd feel the same about me.
The only way I'd agree would be if excess skin did not return to normal. But I'm pretty sure it does. Just hang in there a while!
The name-calling was pretty mean, though. Slap him for me!
2006-10-11 09:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your still 21 yrs old , cosmetic surgery is not recommended for you yet your body is still changing, you do not want to gain eight or anything like that and your surgery goes to waste. lots of reasons.
2006-10-11 09:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
explain to him you just want to feel comfortable in you skin [litereally] and want to have repsect for yourself and take pride in how you look. it would make you a lot happier and you hope that he could be happy for you too.
2006-10-11 09:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by wendydahhling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a great guy. where is your babies daddies?
2006-10-11 09:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by mark f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋