She went out with this guy ( who she had sex with ) while i was in love with her... I always told her he was a bad person, but she never listened. Every once in a while, i get really upset about what she did with him, and she never tries to make it better. What should I do? I really want to stay with her, cause i love her, but not if this will get in the way much more.
2006-10-11 09:45:50 · 7 answers · asked by DefLeppardxXx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"While you were in love with her." If you were dating, she cheated on you. If she was cheating, she may do it again. It's up to you as to whether you can handle that or not.
If you were not dating, then it's not any of your business in the first place. It's your place to get over it, she doesn't have to make you feel better about it.
2006-10-11 09:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Min02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you two dating when she went and had sex with this guy? Also, did she know you were in love with her? Truthfully, I once was the girl who went out and cheated on her bfriend and didnt give a crap about how he felt or how he acted. My best advice to get her to stop pulling her crap is to give her a taste of her own medicine. She feels powerful that you drop to her feet when she wants you to. She feels that she wears the pants in the relationship. Don't let this happen, if it does she will walk ALL over you and not stop what she's doing or how she's acting. I'm telling you start talking to another girl, even if it's just a friend but don't let her know, give a little rope so that her mind wanders. Good Luck
2006-10-11 09:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by jaide1108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't undo what has happened in the past so don't make her try. She made a huge mistake...if you have forgiven her, move on..if not and you think she is worth staying with, get a therapist to help resolve your situation. If neither of those will work, then you just have to cut it off and move on because that problem will always palgue you
2006-10-11 09:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get over this, because it will destroy your relationship for good...is that what you want?...i didn't think so, this happened in the past why hold onto it now...try to get past the thoughts (negative) inside your head...this woman is with you now, dont drive her away into making more bad choices, because of your insecurities.
2006-10-11 09:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that any concern of yours? It was in the past. Either move on or end the relationship
2006-10-11 09:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? she wasn't with you at the time! Who cares! Who she slept with is none of your business as long as she didn't cheat on you! Get over it. Be happy that she's sleeping with you now!
2006-10-11 09:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either grow up (my suggestion) and forget about it, or you break up. In the mean time while you are trying to decide, keep your nasty judgemental mouth shut.
2006-10-11 09:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋