2006-10-11 09:43:08 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
or better yet, is there a such a thing a man loving a woman for what she is?
2006-10-11 09:43:57 · update #1
This usually happens only if the man is something.
2006-10-11 09:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by digitalquirk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is nothing good in me without Christ. Therefore i know that if i am walking in the truth of who i am in Him that I will walk in the fullness of His Love and that the same will be with anyone who is in Christ (Saved). With that said; Yes, there are men & women who have the ability to love completly. We, in this world have become so passive and numbed by media and the world that it seems there is no hope but there is hope and His name is Jesus. May the Lord bless you and keep you and cause His face to shine on you.... Suggestion: Keep your eyes off the world and people and on God and the confusion will begin to go away and you will live in peace and confidence in who you really are in Christ. If you would like to talk more about becoming a Christian or rededicating your life to the Lord feel free to IM me.... Gina T.
2006-10-11 09:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Gina T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is. If you truly care about a person no matter their flaws then you love them for what they are. For example, my husband and I met 12 years ago. We both were into the worldy things, but now I am saved. My husband is not yet commited to turning his life back over but I still love him the same, no matter what. I love him for who he is, what he is, and what we are together. Anything is possible through Christ! If he is in the midst then nothing can go wrong.
2006-10-11 09:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by DeZigns By Monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an age old problem
they ALL say they do...but in the back of their minds...they have an idea of what they HOPE they can change this new person they just meet into...INTO what they want!...not what the person really is...does not matter if it is a man or a female...they both do it...and this is one of the reasons there are so many divorces..... so when you meet some one..BE YOURSELF...do not make up things or change you..be yourself..this way the other person knows what they are getting..and when you meet someone..tell them the same..be yourself..PLEASE...this way you know exactly what your getting..
if we all could do this little simple thing..it would make every-ones lives a lot more easy...
GOOD LUCK
smile
2006-10-11 09:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I challenge anyone married for more than 5 years to claim that in real, daily life, that's what love is.
I've been married 20 years. Love is not "I love you unconditionally for what you are right now." Why not? Because each of us is imperfect, prideful, flawed, selfish...and the longer you're married to someone, the more intimately acquainted you become with their faults and shortcomings.
So what is love? Love is the volitional, willful commitment to work for the best for someone else, at the sacrifice and putting aside of what you want. And sometimes, it's to want and work for the best for someone else even if they don't know that's it's best for them.
2006-10-11 09:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is for both questions.
If both parties are people who do not judge people and are understanding, loving, caring they will love people for who they are.
I love a man whose not even in the same religion, race, country, background as I am. Were so very different but the understanding between us speaks for itself, we dont even argue.
That should be proof enough for you :)
2006-10-11 09:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Me! I have no qualms about my boyf. He has his faults. And boy, thaty are big ones. But I love him and accept them. I wouldn't want to change him for anything in the world. Apart from spending the night with Clive Owen.
Come on, that aint ever gonna happen!!!
2006-10-11 09:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a man who loved me for what I am, even though "what I am" was a cold-hearted b itch to him. I like to think I could love a man for what he is... *shrug* I think every woman (and more than a few men) wants that Hollywood-movie, fairy-tale kinda love, but most have given up on it.
2006-10-11 09:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by Suraya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a married woman I do love my husband for what he is and he loves me the same way.
2006-10-11 09:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Just Askin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women will say yes. But in reality most women want a man they can change. They will say that they love them for who they are as long as they change.
2006-10-11 09:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by Armond B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋