I have been dating a guy for a lil over a year and I love him to death but lately i have realize how different we really are and how much we disagree on not to metion hes just plain boring and never want to do anything........ well theres this other guy how is really hott and way more mature plus he s not a home body and likes to have fun well we went to lunch to day and I was dripping wet just watching him eat and he wants me to hang out with him tonight..... we all know what that means. so what do I do I hate to hurt the guy Im with but a night with this guy would be awsome
2006-10-11 09:29:31 · 14 answers · asked by pennis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask people on Yahoo! answers,
the answer is no.
2006-10-11 09:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally no, but that's my opinion, you do whatever the heck you want, but it might cause you a lot of heartbreak in many areas. It's your body, and i have no say in what you do. Just some advice, if you do, be prepared for the consequenses and don't be surprised if something goes wrong, cuz it'll be no one's fault but your own. It's hard to say no to sex, but it's not impossible. I hope you make the right choice...think of your parents and your boyfriend, no matter how much of a loser he is, also think of yourself, how will you feel the day after? Used? Crappy? Great? i'm thinking the first two but that's my opinion. <><
2006-10-11 09:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by ~*.:Kyla:.*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you already have your mind made up-- boring as in your current or exciting( as yourself )but remember this new guy may just want you long enough to get laid be safe and follow what is best for you--I think you really loving your current is fading and he is not helping-- life is just that, life not confined to the homestead unless you are really ready to settle down
2006-10-11 09:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to listen to anyone on here wether your going to have sex with this new guy because you already know youre going to. If you know you arent happy with your other guy then leave, dont put it off any longer and waste everyones times
2006-10-11 09:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by krisbohanon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sincere advice is to go ahead and have your night. Just make sure the guy you have been dating does not find out. It may sound insensitve but that is what I would do.
2006-10-11 09:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by coolkidd2379 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you really don't like your relationship right now tell your boyfriend you don't see any chemistry between you too. and wait until youve broken up with your boyfriend before going with this other guy, be considerate of your boyfriends feelings.
2006-10-11 09:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by wendydahhling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one or the other. If you pick the hot guy, then dump your boyfriend first. It doesn't matter if your guy is a loser, he doesn't deserve to be cheated on.
2006-10-11 09:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn... keep the kitty in the bag...
it's either one or the other... your guy or the hot guy... playin' the boyfriend is not cool... even if he is a loser, at least do him the favor of breaking up with him... geez
2006-10-11 09:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what you would want your bf to do. if you wanna bone the other guy.. just break up with your bf.. even if just for the day.. lol, thats how i did it.
2006-10-11 09:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say do wat eva u think is right, and u probaly need sum just to let your steam off bc of the way ur bf has been treating u lately.
2006-10-11 09:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋